Nick Pollard

shame um learning to open up to somebody that isn't trying to uh so women tend to feel more safe with men if they're in that people-pleasing mindset men tend to feel more safe with women if they're in that people-pleasing mindset i don't know why that is i would love to you know i should probably ask scott galloway or dr glover why the hell that happens but um i need two men smarter than me to answer that but the but that's just you know the pattern that i see and

shame um learning to open up to somebody that isn't trying to uh so women tend to feel more safe with men if they're in that people-pleasing mindset men tend to feel more safe with women if they're in that people-pleasing mindset i don't know why that is i would love to you know i should probably ask scott galloway or dr glover why the hell that happens but um i need two men smarter than me to answer that but the but that's just you know the pattern that i see and

shame um learning to open up to somebody that isn't trying to uh so women tend to feel more safe with men if they're in that people-pleasing mindset men tend to feel more safe with women if they're in that people-pleasing mindset i don't know why that is i would love to you know i should probably ask scott galloway or dr glover why the hell that happens but um i need two men smarter than me to answer that but the but that's just you know the pattern that i see and

I haven't had a client in the last five years that was like, had a ton of meaningful guy friendships. I haven't had the same as with women.

I haven't had a client in the last five years that was like, had a ton of meaningful guy friendships. I haven't had the same as with women.

I haven't had a client in the last five years that was like, had a ton of meaningful guy friendships. I haven't had the same as with women.

Um, so you get to a place where you've kind of advocated for everyone else long enough and you don't know how. So then you, you face this idea of, you know, if I ask, will I even receive, um, where I think you get, as you start to heal from this, you know, profoundly challenging way to live is, um,

Um, so you get to a place where you've kind of advocated for everyone else long enough and you don't know how. So then you, you face this idea of, you know, if I ask, will I even receive, um, where I think you get, as you start to heal from this, you know, profoundly challenging way to live is, um,

Um, so you get to a place where you've kind of advocated for everyone else long enough and you don't know how. So then you, you face this idea of, you know, if I ask, will I even receive, um, where I think you get, as you start to heal from this, you know, profoundly challenging way to live is, um,

You stop worrying so much about that and say, okay, well, I'm going to ask for what I need, and if I don't get it, I'm going to give it to myself. So there's that.

You stop worrying so much about that and say, okay, well, I'm going to ask for what I need, and if I don't get it, I'm going to give it to myself. So there's that.

You stop worrying so much about that and say, okay, well, I'm going to ask for what I need, and if I don't get it, I'm going to give it to myself. So there's that.

I don't think I realized that till you asked that question. You're good at this, Chris. Um, um, and I'm a little emotional about it because the biggest fear that I see in, in that people pleasing set when I, when I talk about things like setting boundaries is everybody's going to be mad at me. Everybody's going to hate me.

I don't think I realized that till you asked that question. You're good at this, Chris. Um, um, and I'm a little emotional about it because the biggest fear that I see in, in that people pleasing set when I, when I talk about things like setting boundaries is everybody's going to be mad at me. Everybody's going to hate me.

I don't think I realized that till you asked that question. You're good at this, Chris. Um, um, and I'm a little emotional about it because the biggest fear that I see in, in that people pleasing set when I, when I talk about things like setting boundaries is everybody's going to be mad at me. Everybody's going to hate me.

I hear that part of me that was a little kid that just wanted to be loved and accepted and I just wanted to make friends. I struggled with that mightily most of my life. So I think the advocacy of self presents a really big challenge because it's probably the scariest thing you can do is to say, I need something.

I hear that part of me that was a little kid that just wanted to be loved and accepted and I just wanted to make friends. I struggled with that mightily most of my life. So I think the advocacy of self presents a really big challenge because it's probably the scariest thing you can do is to say, I need something.

I hear that part of me that was a little kid that just wanted to be loved and accepted and I just wanted to make friends. I struggled with that mightily most of my life. So I think the advocacy of self presents a really big challenge because it's probably the scariest thing you can do is to say, I need something.

And when you're a kid and you don't get it, and then you learn to ask, is dangerous, or could get me abandoned, or to stand up for myself means the bully gets bigger, not goes away, right?

And when you're a kid and you don't get it, and then you learn to ask, is dangerous, or could get me abandoned, or to stand up for myself means the bully gets bigger, not goes away, right?