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Nick Pollard

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

Right? I get a lot of people that, you know, whether it's on my channel or in my groups or whatever, they'll say, well, you know, if I do this, then, you know, let's pretend you have a narcissistic person. By the way, I hate that term. I also hate the term manifestation. We can do that on another time. But let's pretend, well, my narcissistic whatever is not going to like that.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

Okay, well, they're mad at you anyway, so who gives a shit? Like, if they're going to be mad, whether you do or whether you don't, you may as well do. So, if your life is going to suck, whether you do or whether you don't, you may as well do. And if it has to be done sooner or later, it may as well be done sooner. So let's just do the thing and feel better about ourselves.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

Okay, well, they're mad at you anyway, so who gives a shit? Like, if they're going to be mad, whether you do or whether you don't, you may as well do. So, if your life is going to suck, whether you do or whether you don't, you may as well do. And if it has to be done sooner or later, it may as well be done sooner. So let's just do the thing and feel better about ourselves.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

Okay, well, they're mad at you anyway, so who gives a shit? Like, if they're going to be mad, whether you do or whether you don't, you may as well do. So, if your life is going to suck, whether you do or whether you don't, you may as well do. And if it has to be done sooner or later, it may as well be done sooner. So let's just do the thing and feel better about ourselves.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And will it initially suck?

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And will it initially suck?

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And will it initially suck?

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

It didn't matter how much money I made. It didn't matter who my friends were. I thought it did. It didn't matter what car I drove. And it didn't matter on what floor of the high rise I lived on. What mattered was the minute I started saying, I'm going to show up for me. And I would delineate exactly how I was going to do that.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

It didn't matter how much money I made. It didn't matter who my friends were. I thought it did. It didn't matter what car I drove. And it didn't matter on what floor of the high rise I lived on. What mattered was the minute I started saying, I'm going to show up for me. And I would delineate exactly how I was going to do that.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

It didn't matter how much money I made. It didn't matter who my friends were. I thought it did. It didn't matter what car I drove. And it didn't matter on what floor of the high rise I lived on. What mattered was the minute I started saying, I'm going to show up for me. And I would delineate exactly how I was going to do that.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

Maybe I can start a business. Maybe I can travel the world for two and a half years. I did that like a crazy person. And, you know, at 40, by the way, don't ever do that at 40. It's really, it's fun, but it's, I aged myself a lot and maybe I can ask that girl out. Maybe I can ask that guy out.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

Maybe I can start a business. Maybe I can travel the world for two and a half years. I did that like a crazy person. And, you know, at 40, by the way, don't ever do that at 40. It's really, it's fun, but it's, I aged myself a lot and maybe I can ask that girl out. Maybe I can ask that guy out.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

Maybe I can start a business. Maybe I can travel the world for two and a half years. I did that like a crazy person. And, you know, at 40, by the way, don't ever do that at 40. It's really, it's fun, but it's, I aged myself a lot and maybe I can ask that girl out. Maybe I can ask that guy out.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

Maybe I, maybe, maybe I can, you know, and I think that's what shows up when you, when, you know, kind of in the, in the medium term is like, maybe I can. And then, so it goes from like, Oh fuck, I'm lonely to like, maybe I can. And then it's like, Oh shit, I really can. And then, And then your life just starts to skyrocket and you start to feel good about yourself and you start to wonder.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

Maybe I, maybe, maybe I can, you know, and I think that's what shows up when you, when, you know, kind of in the, in the medium term is like, maybe I can. And then, so it goes from like, Oh fuck, I'm lonely to like, maybe I can. And then it's like, Oh shit, I really can. And then, And then your life just starts to skyrocket and you start to feel good about yourself and you start to wonder.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

Maybe I, maybe, maybe I can, you know, and I think that's what shows up when you, when, you know, kind of in the, in the medium term is like, maybe I can. And then, so it goes from like, Oh fuck, I'm lonely to like, maybe I can. And then it's like, Oh shit, I really can. And then, And then your life just starts to skyrocket and you start to feel good about yourself and you start to wonder.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And then you hit a wall and that'll happen because you'll make a new friend or you'll make a new ally and they'll turn out to be a piece of shit that's common along this journey because you start to get a little full of yourself. And then you get knocked back down a little bit and you make a course correction.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And then you hit a wall and that'll happen because you'll make a new friend or you'll make a new ally and they'll turn out to be a piece of shit that's common along this journey because you start to get a little full of yourself. And then you get knocked back down a little bit and you make a course correction.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And then you hit a wall and that'll happen because you'll make a new friend or you'll make a new ally and they'll turn out to be a piece of shit that's common along this journey because you start to get a little full of yourself. And then you get knocked back down a little bit and you make a course correction.

Modern Wisdom
#884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser

And then slowly but surely you start to find out that people love you for you, not because of what you do.