Nick Pollard

and and i think we've i think we've you know i think we've beaten that horse to death and manifested our way into this idea of um that everybody is supposed to be everything to us all the time and it's just it's not sustainable and it's not realistic

and and i think we've i think we've you know i think we've beaten that horse to death and manifested our way into this idea of um that everybody is supposed to be everything to us all the time and it's just it's not sustainable and it's not realistic

and and i think we've i think we've you know i think we've beaten that horse to death and manifested our way into this idea of um that everybody is supposed to be everything to us all the time and it's just it's not sustainable and it's not realistic

So I'm not sure I answered your question there so much as I gave you a soundbite that's probably going to get me punched in the face on the streets of Denver. But, you know, whatever.

So I'm not sure I answered your question there so much as I gave you a soundbite that's probably going to get me punched in the face on the streets of Denver. But, you know, whatever.

So I'm not sure I answered your question there so much as I gave you a soundbite that's probably going to get me punched in the face on the streets of Denver. But, you know, whatever.

I think there's almost an epidemic of no contact in the world right now. So I think giving up on people is happening a little too quickly. So I'm really glad you asked that.

I think there's almost an epidemic of no contact in the world right now. So I think giving up on people is happening a little too quickly. So I'm really glad you asked that.

I think there's almost an epidemic of no contact in the world right now. So I think giving up on people is happening a little too quickly. So I'm really glad you asked that.

um not everybody who doesn't understand this new way of you showing up is toxic um so i want to just start by saying that but when somebody it's really i mean it's so nuanced and i hate that word too um because it's just it's the new excuse for you know i don't want to hear what you have to say um You said it on another one of these nuances, the new N word. I almost passed out. I laughed so hard.

um not everybody who doesn't understand this new way of you showing up is toxic um so i want to just start by saying that but when somebody it's really i mean it's so nuanced and i hate that word too um because it's just it's the new excuse for you know i don't want to hear what you have to say um You said it on another one of these nuances, the new N word. I almost passed out. I laughed so hard.

um not everybody who doesn't understand this new way of you showing up is toxic um so i want to just start by saying that but when somebody it's really i mean it's so nuanced and i hate that word too um because it's just it's the new excuse for you know i don't want to hear what you have to say um You said it on another one of these nuances, the new N word. I almost passed out. I laughed so hard.

So I was driving. I almost locked up the brakes in my car. But I've only gone no contact or cut three people out of my life. and they weren't small people. So one of which was my father. I talked to him once in nine years and then once on his deathbed. That was it. Um, I've not talked to my, um, sister since 2015 or no, I'm sorry, 20, 2009. I have not spoken to her and I probably will never again.

So I was driving. I almost locked up the brakes in my car. But I've only gone no contact or cut three people out of my life. and they weren't small people. So one of which was my father. I talked to him once in nine years and then once on his deathbed. That was it. Um, I've not talked to my, um, sister since 2015 or no, I'm sorry, 20, 2009. I have not spoken to her and I probably will never again.

So I was driving. I almost locked up the brakes in my car. But I've only gone no contact or cut three people out of my life. and they weren't small people. So one of which was my father. I talked to him once in nine years and then once on his deathbed. That was it. Um, I've not talked to my, um, sister since 2015 or no, I'm sorry, 20, 2009. I have not spoken to her and I probably will never again.

I don't know if it's more or less. I think it's, um,

I don't know if it's more or less. I think it's, um,

I don't know if it's more or less. I think it's, um,

Um, the challenges it presents when you've become a highly successful people pleaser are probably more challenging to overcome because there's, there's more at stake. Um, and your belief system, but I mentioned this earlier is, you know, Beliefs drive behavior. Behavior creates environment. But beliefs are built through reinforcement.

Um, the challenges it presents when you've become a highly successful people pleaser are probably more challenging to overcome because there's, there's more at stake. Um, and your belief system, but I mentioned this earlier is, you know, Beliefs drive behavior. Behavior creates environment. But beliefs are built through reinforcement.