Nick Pollard
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Like, that's a really terrible way to live your life. Mm-hmm.
So it deprioritizes a lot of things. So... I'd say the first is your physical well-being will take a backseat to everybody else's needs. And so the first thing I started to do was get in shape. And I've been listening to your show for years now, and every single person that comes on says, yeah, everything changed for me when I got in shape. So here's one more to the list. Right.
So it deprioritizes a lot of things. So... I'd say the first is your physical well-being will take a backseat to everybody else's needs. And so the first thing I started to do was get in shape. And I've been listening to your show for years now, and every single person that comes on says, yeah, everything changed for me when I got in shape. So here's one more to the list. Right.
So it deprioritizes a lot of things. So... I'd say the first is your physical well-being will take a backseat to everybody else's needs. And so the first thing I started to do was get in shape. And I've been listening to your show for years now, and every single person that comes on says, yeah, everything changed for me when I got in shape. So here's one more to the list. Right.
I'll be the 7,000th person to say that on this show. Yeah. So the first thing I noticed was that I had been deprioritizing really the core of what my body needs. So I was eating poorly because I didn't have enough time to cook for myself. I wasn't going to the gym. I wasn't taking yoga classes. I wasn't stretching. I wasn't meditating. I wasn't doing any of the cool shit I do now.
I'll be the 7,000th person to say that on this show. Yeah. So the first thing I noticed was that I had been deprioritizing really the core of what my body needs. So I was eating poorly because I didn't have enough time to cook for myself. I wasn't going to the gym. I wasn't taking yoga classes. I wasn't stretching. I wasn't meditating. I wasn't doing any of the cool shit I do now.
I'll be the 7,000th person to say that on this show. Yeah. So the first thing I noticed was that I had been deprioritizing really the core of what my body needs. So I was eating poorly because I didn't have enough time to cook for myself. I wasn't going to the gym. I wasn't taking yoga classes. I wasn't stretching. I wasn't meditating. I wasn't doing any of the cool shit I do now.
So that's kind of the first thing is that you notice that your health is suffering. The second and probably more important is that your emotional well-being takes a hit every day. You always kind of feel like you're behind the eight ball in where you're going. It was really weird for me, but I never felt like I could catch up to anybody. So I think you're 35. I'm 44.
So that's kind of the first thing is that you notice that your health is suffering. The second and probably more important is that your emotional well-being takes a hit every day. You always kind of feel like you're behind the eight ball in where you're going. It was really weird for me, but I never felt like I could catch up to anybody. So I think you're 35. I'm 44.
So that's kind of the first thing is that you notice that your health is suffering. The second and probably more important is that your emotional well-being takes a hit every day. You always kind of feel like you're behind the eight ball in where you're going. It was really weird for me, but I never felt like I could catch up to anybody. So I think you're 35. I'm 44.
If I was in a room with you, I would feel like I was younger than you. And I have no idea why that was. Everybody was a titan to me. Everybody was better than me. And I was constantly trying to measure up. So when you think of what that does to your mental health, it just puts you in a position that you always feel like you're in the lurch and you can never be what you want to be.
If I was in a room with you, I would feel like I was younger than you. And I have no idea why that was. Everybody was a titan to me. Everybody was better than me. And I was constantly trying to measure up. So when you think of what that does to your mental health, it just puts you in a position that you always feel like you're in the lurch and you can never be what you want to be.
If I was in a room with you, I would feel like I was younger than you. And I have no idea why that was. Everybody was a titan to me. Everybody was better than me. And I was constantly trying to measure up. So when you think of what that does to your mental health, it just puts you in a position that you always feel like you're in the lurch and you can never be what you want to be.
And then financially, it'll ruin you. I would give away money to my mom. I'd give away money to my girlfriend. I'd give away money to anybody that needed it. And I'm watching my bank account dwindle and I'm bailing people out of jail and I'm doing everything I can to make everybody else's life easier because I thought that's what it meant to get love.
And then financially, it'll ruin you. I would give away money to my mom. I'd give away money to my girlfriend. I'd give away money to anybody that needed it. And I'm watching my bank account dwindle and I'm bailing people out of jail and I'm doing everything I can to make everybody else's life easier because I thought that's what it meant to get love.
And then financially, it'll ruin you. I would give away money to my mom. I'd give away money to my girlfriend. I'd give away money to anybody that needed it. And I'm watching my bank account dwindle and I'm bailing people out of jail and I'm doing everything I can to make everybody else's life easier because I thought that's what it meant to get love.
And so when you consider the implications of how over a long timeline, how it will impact you, it will literally take your life away. The average people pleaser that I work with is either at or about to be burnt out at 38. Like completely burned out.
And so when you consider the implications of how over a long timeline, how it will impact you, it will literally take your life away. The average people pleaser that I work with is either at or about to be burnt out at 38. Like completely burned out.
And so when you consider the implications of how over a long timeline, how it will impact you, it will literally take your life away. The average people pleaser that I work with is either at or about to be burnt out at 38. Like completely burned out.
And it's really kind of now very often they'll burn out and they can continue to keep going because, well, they have responsibility and they have, you know, so entrepreneurs are really great at this. Um, we're awesome people pleasers very often because we get to a place where like the customer is always right.