Nicole Lapin

And this sounds so wrong, but there's a part of it that like is a little bit fuzzy to me because mom brain is so real.

So you're in the car.

There's something about stabbing your vagina that I don't remember, but I think about this all the time.

Because you're a badass lawyer also.

And then from that, where basically your husband texts you like, why didn't you get blueberries?

As if you are in charge of stocking everything, which now I fully know.

And being postpartum is a whole other bag.

Three months postpartum at that time.

Which is...

I mean, no, really hard, really hard from that.

it inspired you to create a spreadsheet.

Yes.

So the spreadsheet started originally just for Seth.

And what did you put in this spreadsheet?

You touched on something that I wanted to double click on because one objection that women get when they try to shift responsibility to their partner is like, oh, well, you do a better job at that.

You're just better at that.

So shouldn't you do that?

The idea that it's weaponizing competence.

Mm-hmm.

So maybe we are better at a lot of things, clearly.