Noah Kagan
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was gonna work out what was your views around money during that time were you more anxious and stressed were you more abundant thinking like where were you at with money it's easy to be abundant when you have money i'll tell you that it's hard when you and that's what most people they're struggling with money that's why i'm like let's talk about entrepreneurship because that's a way of you can changing your situation which everyone can do and i had a friend who said no you're here and you're here where you want to be and it's actually closer than you think
was gonna work out what was your views around money during that time were you more anxious and stressed were you more abundant thinking like where were you at with money it's easy to be abundant when you have money i'll tell you that it's hard when you and that's what most people they're struggling with money that's why i'm like let's talk about entrepreneurship because that's a way of you can changing your situation which everyone can do and i had a friend who said no you're here and you're here where you want to be and it's actually closer than you think
I was like, really? He's like, yeah, it's much closer than you think. You thought it was a bigger gap. I thought it's a gap. I thought there's something I don't know. I thought there's something outside. And it's something I think we're both, as we've gotten older, it's all inside. Yeah. Just being kind of like, hey, it's okay. Yeah, of course. It's okay.
I was like, really? He's like, yeah, it's much closer than you think. You thought it was a bigger gap. I thought it's a gap. I thought there's something I don't know. I thought there's something outside. And it's something I think we're both, as we've gotten older, it's all inside. Yeah. Just being kind of like, hey, it's okay. Yeah, of course. It's okay.
Now with my ex, it was not that there was a good or bad thing about money. It was just how we treated each other with it. Like I didn't really spend a lot of money on myself.
Now with my ex, it was not that there was a good or bad thing about money. It was just how we treated each other with it. Like I didn't really spend a lot of money on myself.
Was it in stocks? What were you doing? Yeah. My father built his own business and then lost it to drugs and alcohol. And it was, it was a sad, like, that's definitely for me. I think a lot of, a lot of men, we want our fathers to recognize us. And I was fortunate. I have a great mom and a great stepfather. But for me, that, that father attachment. Yes.
Was it in stocks? What were you doing? Yeah. My father built his own business and then lost it to drugs and alcohol. And it was, it was a sad, like, that's definitely for me. I think a lot of, a lot of men, we want our fathers to recognize us. And I was fortunate. I have a great mom and a great stepfather. But for me, that, that father attachment. Yes.
Um, and I think with growing up with Jewish parents, candidly, like we're taught to be very frugal. We're taught to be very practical and it's just like, go make money. And that, that's a thing versus like, all right, how do you enjoy life? And I think with my ex, it wasn't, she kind of made me feel bad about it.
Um, and I think with growing up with Jewish parents, candidly, like we're taught to be very frugal. We're taught to be very practical and it's just like, go make money. And that, that's a thing versus like, all right, how do you enjoy life? And I think with my ex, it wasn't, she kind of made me feel bad about it.
Like, why don't you spend money or we go to the airport, it's like $5 for a bottle of water. I'm like, I'm going to go to the bathroom and drink from the faucet. Like, or like, I'm just like five bucks. It's fine. I don't care. And I'm, there's still times, but over time you start spending in different things. Like I bought a fancy Jaguar. I had so much regret on it. Yes, you did. Oh yeah.
Like, why don't you spend money or we go to the airport, it's like $5 for a bottle of water. I'm like, I'm going to go to the bathroom and drink from the faucet. Like, or like, I'm just like five bucks. It's fine. I don't care. And I'm, there's still times, but over time you start spending in different things. Like I bought a fancy Jaguar. I had so much regret on it. Yes, you did. Oh yeah.
I hated it. I hated it. I dude, I, Oh man, it was the worst. Cause I don't care about nice cars. I have a 2004 Miata. I just got a new Vespa. There you go. That's the second I do. I do have a, I have a model Y, but it was not important to me. And I think that was interesting where she wasn't in free. Both of us. She wasn't like, Hey, she was like, you're being cheap. I was like, okay.
I hated it. I hated it. I dude, I, Oh man, it was the worst. Cause I don't care about nice cars. I have a 2004 Miata. I just got a new Vespa. There you go. That's the second I do. I do have a, I have a model Y, but it was not important to me. And I think that was interesting where she wasn't in free. Both of us. She wasn't like, Hey, she was like, you're being cheap. I was like, okay.
You know, it kind of like felt deflated versus, and I was like, hey, why don't we, you know, do you want to try spending these things? Can we rent it for a day? Right, right, right. So I think there was ways of actually being more positive to each other with money. Right. Wow.
You know, it kind of like felt deflated versus, and I was like, hey, why don't we, you know, do you want to try spending these things? Can we rent it for a day? Right, right, right. So I think there was ways of actually being more positive to each other with money. Right. Wow.
I'll tell you the part that's counterintuitive for me. So every day I write down something I'm grateful. And almost everything I'm grateful for is silly. Like to me, it's like I'm grateful for electricity. I'm grateful for water. Yeah. Hot water. I think that's silly, man. Yeah. Those are the ones I really love because it's available and it's not realizing how great life really is for all of us.
I'll tell you the part that's counterintuitive for me. So every day I write down something I'm grateful. And almost everything I'm grateful for is silly. Like to me, it's like I'm grateful for electricity. I'm grateful for water. Yeah. Hot water. I think that's silly, man. Yeah. Those are the ones I really love because it's available and it's not realizing how great life really is for all of us.
I mean, if you're able to watch this, life's probably pretty good. Yes. It doesn't maybe feel good in this moment or you don't have the money, but that's also something you could change. In terms of having...
I mean, if you're able to watch this, life's probably pretty good. Yes. It doesn't maybe feel good in this moment or you don't have the money, but that's also something you could change. In terms of having...