Olivia Wilde

It's just like, oh, maybe I'm wrong is actually a great bit of wisdom.

And then as your roots get deeper, then I guess like to continue with this metaphor, like a tree, when the storm hits you, it's not as destabilizing.

You're like, okay, but I know my roots.

And you're just getting more and more rooted.

And that's what really matters.

And when you're young, you're just like, it's too easy to push you over.

I'm on a 23-year year off right now.

I wanted to act.

I really wanted to be an actress.

I always wanted to be an actress.

And so I deferred.

I was going to go to Bard in New York.

And I, instead of going to, like,

to have like orgies in the waterfall of my liberal arts college in upstate New York, which is all I would have done.

I came to LA and I was a casting assistant and I pounded the pavement going to auditions and I was in the cattle call of pilot season where we all...

were looked exactly the same and tried so hard to assimilate like and then slowly learned to value my singularity as we all hopefully do and and but it was a i gave myself nine months i was like if i don't have a job at nine months i'll go back to school

Eloped and married.

So insane.

Also, was it at Burning Man?

It was at Burning Man.