Oprah Winfrey

Okay, und das ist, wo »It Begins With You« herkommt. Ja. Okay, und ich liebe diese Idee, die Sie auf Seite 138 erwähnt haben. Lassen Sie mich es mit Ihnen alle wieder erzählen. Innerhalb von uns ist ein Kind, das designt wünscht, von einem Partner geliebt zu werden, so wie ein Vater uns idealerweise lieben würde, und das unabhängig. Und bevor wir angefangen haben,

Our conversation that you all are seeing, when we were getting miked up here, I asked Jillian if she was familiar with another world-known therapist named Harville Hendricks, wrote a book called Getting the Love You Want. And that book...

Our conversation that you all are seeing, when we were getting miked up here, I asked Jillian if she was familiar with another world-known therapist named Harville Hendricks, wrote a book called Getting the Love You Want. And that book...

Our conversation that you all are seeing, when we were getting miked up here, I asked Jillian if she was familiar with another world-known therapist named Harville Hendricks, wrote a book called Getting the Love You Want. And that book...

redefined for me what having a relationship or being in a relationship was because in 1988 on the Oprah show he said every relationship that you're seeking you're seeking to heal the relationship that you had with your parents the dominant parent or guardian in your life and that the people that show up in your life in your personal relationships are there and

redefined for me what having a relationship or being in a relationship was because in 1988 on the Oprah show he said every relationship that you're seeking you're seeking to heal the relationship that you had with your parents the dominant parent or guardian in your life and that the people that show up in your life in your personal relationships are there and

redefined for me what having a relationship or being in a relationship was because in 1988 on the Oprah show he said every relationship that you're seeking you're seeking to heal the relationship that you had with your parents the dominant parent or guardian in your life and that the people that show up in your life in your personal relationships are there and

As triggers, as resources, as reminders for what you got and also for what you didn't get.

As triggers, as resources, as reminders for what you got and also for what you didn't get.

As triggers, as resources, as reminders for what you got and also for what you didn't get.

So, I mean, that is what... Und das hat meine Beziehung wirklich gerettet. Es hat die Art und Weise geändert, wie ich in meiner Beziehung mit Stedman gearbeitet habe und in all meinen Beziehungen, wenn ich erinnere, dass Leute daraus kommen. Alle versuchen einfach nur zu heilen und einen Unabhängigen Weg zu finden, um geliebt zu werden.

So, I mean, that is what... Und das hat meine Beziehung wirklich gerettet. Es hat die Art und Weise geändert, wie ich in meiner Beziehung mit Stedman gearbeitet habe und in all meinen Beziehungen, wenn ich erinnere, dass Leute daraus kommen. Alle versuchen einfach nur zu heilen und einen Unabhängigen Weg zu finden, um geliebt zu werden.

So, I mean, that is what... Und das hat meine Beziehung wirklich gerettet. Es hat die Art und Weise geändert, wie ich in meiner Beziehung mit Stedman gearbeitet habe und in all meinen Beziehungen, wenn ich erinnere, dass Leute daraus kommen. Alle versuchen einfach nur zu heilen und einen Unabhängigen Weg zu finden, um geliebt zu werden.

Und dein Partner repräsentiert immer einen Teil dessen, was nicht geheilt wurde. Ja. Dein Mann repräsentierte also wen für dich?

Und dein Partner repräsentiert immer einen Teil dessen, was nicht geheilt wurde. Ja. Dein Mann repräsentierte also wen für dich?

Und dein Partner repräsentiert immer einen Teil dessen, was nicht geheilt wurde. Ja. Dein Mann repräsentierte also wen für dich?

That's right.

That's right.

That's right.

Yeah, and I think that that is also a really good advice for people who are in relationships that are challenged, is to ask yourself, where have I had this feeling before? Because it isn't about what they look like, it isn't about, you know, any of that. Because in the beginning I thought, oh, Stedman's here representing my father, you know, my father is an honorable man. All diese Dinge.