Oprah Winfrey

Yeah, and I think that that is also a really good advice for people who are in relationships that are challenged, is to ask yourself, where have I had this feeling before? Because it isn't about what they look like, it isn't about, you know, any of that. Because in the beginning I thought, oh, Stedman's here representing my father, you know, my father is an honorable man. All diese Dinge.

Yeah, and I think that that is also a really good advice for people who are in relationships that are challenged, is to ask yourself, where have I had this feeling before? Because it isn't about what they look like, it isn't about, you know, any of that. Because in the beginning I thought, oh, Stedman's here representing my father, you know, my father is an honorable man. All diese Dinge.

Und später erkannte ich, dass es nicht nur um meinen Vater geht. Es geht auch um das Heilen der Schmerzen mit meiner Mutter. Weil jedes Mal, wenn es einen Konflikt gibt, denke ich, wo habe ich das vorher erlebt? Wo habe ich das vorher erlebt? So we know millions of women are seeking your advice and we have Marianne joining us on Zoom.

Und später erkannte ich, dass es nicht nur um meinen Vater geht. Es geht auch um das Heilen der Schmerzen mit meiner Mutter. Weil jedes Mal, wenn es einen Konflikt gibt, denke ich, wo habe ich das vorher erlebt? Wo habe ich das vorher erlebt? So we know millions of women are seeking your advice and we have Marianne joining us on Zoom.

Und später erkannte ich, dass es nicht nur um meinen Vater geht. Es geht auch um das Heilen der Schmerzen mit meiner Mutter. Weil jedes Mal, wenn es einen Konflikt gibt, denke ich, wo habe ich das vorher erlebt? Wo habe ich das vorher erlebt? So we know millions of women are seeking your advice and we have Marianne joining us on Zoom.

Marianne, I hear you're a divorced mom, three children from Massachusetts who says you're terrified to get married again. So let's talk about it.

Marianne, I hear you're a divorced mom, three children from Massachusetts who says you're terrified to get married again. So let's talk about it.

Marianne, I hear you're a divorced mom, three children from Massachusetts who says you're terrified to get married again. So let's talk about it.

And become quiet. You pull back and you shut down.

And become quiet. You pull back and you shut down.

And become quiet. You pull back and you shut down.

What's wrong? What's wrong? What's wrong? And you're saying nothing, nothing, nothing. Yeah, that's exactly what I do. Well, you know what? I would say... Ask and it shall be given, the Bible says. And I would say that the fact that you're at the realization now, where you have actually said out loud to us and all the people who are listening and watching, that you don't want this anymore.

What's wrong? What's wrong? What's wrong? And you're saying nothing, nothing, nothing. Yeah, that's exactly what I do. Well, you know what? I would say... Ask and it shall be given, the Bible says. And I would say that the fact that you're at the realization now, where you have actually said out loud to us and all the people who are listening and watching, that you don't want this anymore.

What's wrong? What's wrong? What's wrong? And you're saying nothing, nothing, nothing. Yeah, that's exactly what I do. Well, you know what? I would say... Ask and it shall be given, the Bible says. And I would say that the fact that you're at the realization now, where you have actually said out loud to us and all the people who are listening and watching, that you don't want this anymore.

You see this about yourself. I know. You have chosen this path all these years and now you are saying, I want to choose differently. And just the desire to do that and the openness and awareness of, again, how Jillian says, recognizing how you begin to sabotage yourself.

You see this about yourself. I know. You have chosen this path all these years and now you are saying, I want to choose differently. And just the desire to do that and the openness and awareness of, again, how Jillian says, recognizing how you begin to sabotage yourself.

You see this about yourself. I know. You have chosen this path all these years and now you are saying, I want to choose differently. And just the desire to do that and the openness and awareness of, again, how Jillian says, recognizing how you begin to sabotage yourself.

And being vulnerable enough, open enough with somebody to say, look, in the past I've had this problem and this has been an issue for me and I'm trying to relearn in this new phase of my life. And you don't start the relationship with, oh, I'm not gonna get married, if that's what you think. You just allow yourself...

And being vulnerable enough, open enough with somebody to say, look, in the past I've had this problem and this has been an issue for me and I'm trying to relearn in this new phase of my life. And you don't start the relationship with, oh, I'm not gonna get married, if that's what you think. You just allow yourself...

And being vulnerable enough, open enough with somebody to say, look, in the past I've had this problem and this has been an issue for me and I'm trying to relearn in this new phase of my life. And you don't start the relationship with, oh, I'm not gonna get married, if that's what you think. You just allow yourself...