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Ore Oduba

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On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And I don't think we're fully appreciating

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

that there's a cost.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

More graphic, more violent.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And that's where that graph goes.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

So when people ask, what is the cost of an addiction?

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Or what is the cost of repeated exposure to this kind of material?

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It is existential.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It is...

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It's beyond the graph.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And I feel so fortunate that I was able to find a way out of it.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

I think this is why I feel so passionately about it.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It's because I know what it feels like to be a good kid.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Exposed to something that they shouldn't have come across.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Years of exposure and repeated patterns of behavior.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

World shrinking, a complete limitation to what they thought their life should look like.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And I think if I didn't have incredible family, incredible friends, if I didn't have a job that I love, if there weren't those things and my incredible children, at the end of the day for me, I wanted to speak about this because I wanted to save my kids from a world that I had already fallen into.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And for me, the thing that I know I will never return to it is because of my kids, because that was what was at stake.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

It was either losing my life or saving my life for the benefit of my children.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

And I don't think most people as it is will escape it until we recognize that that graph and what you haven't shown, what TJ hasn't shown there, is the consequence of letting this run through us societally.

On The Mend
Ore Oduba on His Hidden Porn Addiction, Stigma and Shame

Man, do you know, I really do think the first step is that acknowledgement.