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Which is why we need to go adult explicit material.

Adult explicit material, exactly.

But no, I think because, you know, sex is such a vulnerable thing.

Societally, even sex, good sex isn't talked about.

How often do you talk about sex in your house?

That's huge, man.

That's the remedy.

That's the medicine.

Because it's talking early and it's talking often.

Because you're right, we are still figuring it out, but so are they.

And if they don't know that they can come to us with these things, even if that was the only conversation you had, you opened that line of communication.

Because in lieu of that, without that communication, it creates a distance and a void between the parents and the kids and what's going to fill that void.

The things that they're influenced by in their world, their friends, or what they see on their devices.

And so often, it's pornography.

Especially when it comes to sex.

This is what is filling the void.

And it's so plentiful, so accessible, that if they see it often enough, and there's no kind of, well, that's actually not what it looks like in real life.

That's not a healthy way.

And actually...

you know age appropriately but getting to the point of going this too far down the track creates a really big harm yeah create harm to you it'll create harm to your relationships to the people that you love um and what i would like to create a space where you know that you can talk about this stuff and we will help you understand what good sexual relationships look like