Pallavi Gogoi
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And she also shares that, you know, she would love to raise her child with her child's dad, for instance.
And she says that and the statistics actually do show it.
A father might be at home, but is not kind of the primary caregiver almost always is the mother.
And a lot of men are not necessarily showing up to either take care of the child or also to take care of the household, not at the same level as the women are.
So a lot of the women I talk to actually say what Danielle just said, which is that, you know, do I have to take care of a child and a grown-up at the same time and clean up after them?
Oh my God, there's so many.
The woman that we met in Winchester, Virginia, Adrienne Brumley, it is so powerful for her to say that I do not regret for a moment that I decided to have my baby.
There are so many other mothers.
I'll tell you about one more mother who is really resourceful.
She says that I have a 15-minute ride to daycare every day.
Those 15 minutes can get wild very fast because these kids can be fighting.
She has two kids.
And how does she pass her time?
She gets her kids to think about the songs, like Old MacDonald Had a Farm.
And so by the time they picked their 15th or 20th animal, and they might not be any farm animal, they've completed their 15-minute ride to school.
They're just so cute.
Coming up, she'd been rehearsing with her daughter.
If someone asks you, who's your father?
You tell them.