Pam Stepnick

No.

So it was very dramatic between Greg and I. Greg told his truth about the divorce and I told the truth.

And it was I thought it would be judged like, oh, she left her family, like he said, like just left them there and abandoned them for 29 days and disappeared.

And what?

First of all, that's not even true, but that's what he said.

And so I thought people would, like, come at me.

It was very completely the opposite.

People came and wrote to me, emailed, DMed, whatever, and were like, we're so proud of you.

You have given us, me, so much strength to get out of this relationship I need to be in.

I had a young gentleman reach out to me, how his mom is in a bad situation and his grandma, and they were trying to get out of it.

had them watch that episode and it totally gave them the courage to be resilient which is I think also what I learned is how resilient that that that actually was because it was I was very much in in love with Greg I never expected that we would be divorced but that the constant

I'm not focusing too much on that unless you want me to.

No, at the time they were too young.

They were too young to realize what was actually going on.

I think if I had stayed and it kept going on, I would have been this meek, mild, crunched down version of myself.

I wasn't happy and I wasn't being the best mom that I could be.

And I knew it.

I sensed it.

Greg would tell me.

that I was a bad mom.