Pamela Adlon

This is when people are so wound up in their things.

And for...

Randall, for your character to be able to say, oh, I don't need to be like this and have your arms crossed for the rest of your life with this woman who you had this beautiful parenting relationship with.

So it's just, it's really fascinating.

It's really nuanced.

And if you want to keep like banging that bell and say, look what she did.

Okay.

She did that.

You've been diagnosed.

You're identified.

Some people can't...

You know, you don't have to, it's like this old school mentality and I'm older than everybody in this room.

And we came from a time where tiny, we came from a time where we just were like, we need an apology.

We need to forgive to move on.

It's not true.

Look at Colorado or whatever latest body of water is drying up.

I don't have time for a written, embossed apology.

I'll take anything.

I will tell you something that is so powerful because...

We're talking about therapy and we're talking about being in a situation like, if you can get in a war room with your friends or people that you respect, you don't even have to like everybody, but you can spend time with somebody that you don't particularly like and find a way through, which will enhance your life.