Pamela Garfield-Jaeger

It's really hard to penetrate.

Yeah, they took so many things out of context.

Because he said he didn't like civil rights, so they're taking that as he's racist.

But he was actually referring to, he was comparing it to the trans issue because basically the trans activist has hijacked the Civil Rights Act for them to invade women's spaces and to invade sports and those things.

So he was saying it had good intentions, but now there's some problems.

So he was talking about that.

And they don't clarify that's what he was talking about.

They just think, oh, he's automatically racist and he hates everything that they believe Martin Luther King stood for.

They also don't succeed.

It actually sets them up to fail in many situations.

And when they do achieve something, then they have to question, did I achieve this because I deserve it, because of my merit, or because of the color of my skin?

I guess there's that issue, but I know that's an issue in general with a lot of families, something I'm personally dealing with, but it's not something I'm treating or working with as a therapist.

I know a lot of therapists are facing that, especially as now we're entering the holidays, the stress of that.

I mean, you're modeling what they need.

I mean, we all know this, and I think people who are therapists are listening, that most of the therapy is not the content.

It's the relationship.

And the relationship.

So what you're doing is you're modeling the fact that you won't abandon them.

You're modeling healthy disagreements.

And that's actually a big part of the treatment right there.