Pascal Auclair

And you know, other ways that I see this is about how to do things.

At work, for example, oh no, that's not how to do this.

The step one is this, the step two is... It's as if there's no space for creativity or how to raise a kid.

You have kids.

You'll know what I'm talking about.

People will tell you, this is the way to raise a kid.

This is the way to... Sometimes I have this in my house with my partner.

It's like we start to make a meal and I'm like, no, the onions go first.

That's why I want to bring this list here today, because I think it's very applicable.

I'm like, oh, why do I suffer in my relationship?

Because I cling to rites and rituals.

I cling to the way we're going to do this meal.

And I don't seem to care about the relationship for a few moments here.

I care about the way...

The order of the vegetables going in the pan.

And I'm miserable, and I make the other miserable.

And there's another way.

There's another way.

And becoming aware of this, I'm like, oh, maybe I can let go a bit of my clinging to ways of doing things here.

And maybe I'll find some joy and connection, you know?