Paul Brunson

She knows she's anxious. So you're aware that as a result of her being anxious, there's a higher level of reassurance that she is going to need while she is working on healing and becoming earned attached.

She knows she's anxious. So you're aware that as a result of her being anxious, there's a higher level of reassurance that she is going to need while she is working on healing and becoming earned attached.

But people never really heal.

But people never really heal.

You never – I never heal. Well, you know what? Healing is continual. Yeah. The question, though, is can she get to a place of being secure? Absolutely. Happens to many people. So she's in the process of evolving into secure. So while she's evolving into secure, you have to give her that benefit of the doubt that she's going to need a little bit more on the reassurance front. That's one.

You never – I never heal. Well, you know what? Healing is continual. Yeah. The question, though, is can she get to a place of being secure? Absolutely. Happens to many people. So she's in the process of evolving into secure. So while she's evolving into secure, you have to give her that benefit of the doubt that she's going to need a little bit more on the reassurance front. That's one.

Secondly is if you did sit her down, you explained all these things. What also could be the case, I'm not saying this is, but what also could be the case is that there's not enough emotional deposits that she currently has in the account.

Secondly is if you did sit her down, you explained all these things. What also could be the case, I'm not saying this is, but what also could be the case is that there's not enough emotional deposits that she currently has in the account.

I think that's a fact.

I think that's a fact.

So as a result of there not being enough... She's checking in for the reassurance. So being aware of those two things, the fact that she has an anxious attachment, she's developing secure, but she is anxious. So her threshold is higher for the need or lower for the need. And you may not have given enough emotional currency early on.

So as a result of there not being enough... She's checking in for the reassurance. So being aware of those two things, the fact that she has an anxious attachment, she's developing secure, but she is anxious. So her threshold is higher for the need or lower for the need. And you may not have given enough emotional currency early on.

It makes sense to me that she would kind of check in and there would be a bid. Now, given... the fact that you're head down, you're focused, you acknowledge the bid, and you specifically said you chose to ignore The beard.

It makes sense to me that she would kind of check in and there would be a bid. Now, given... the fact that you're head down, you're focused, you acknowledge the bid, and you specifically said you chose to ignore The beard.

The third one. It was the third one. It was the third. I actually didn't feel like I had noticed. I looked up and smiled, but she was 100 meters away from me. Okay. And then I, okay, I'm going to be completely honest, okay? Because there's no point in me bullshitting.

The third one. It was the third one. It was the third. I actually didn't feel like I had noticed. I looked up and smiled, but she was 100 meters away from me. Okay. And then I, okay, I'm going to be completely honest, okay? Because there's no point in me bullshitting.

So I looked up, I smiled, and then I got up and walked across, and I picked up my headphones, and I came back.

So I looked up, I smiled, and then I got up and walked across, and I picked up my headphones, and I came back.

I thought they were two separate incidents. I thought it was the smile. And then I thought maybe if I put my headphones on, I can focus.

I thought they were two separate incidents. I thought it was the smile. And then I thought maybe if I put my headphones on, I can focus.