Paul C. Brunson

Oh, I totally agree.

Impact someone's life.

Make it better.

Your work has made millions.

Thank you.

Dr. Amir Levine, you know, this could be one of my favorite things about the pod, I think.

You know, it's so wild.

Like, we have so many incredible guests, but to talk to the people that I base my work on,

is just it's just mind-blowing to me and it's and it's such a privilege and a blessing and and he is one you know when attached came out which is what 2010 when that book came out i remember reading it thinking this is really good but i didn't realize how impactful the book was going to be to an entire industry i mean you think how many people talk about their attachment style how like

Everyone, to the point where, you know, he was very humble.

He said, you know, attachment style came from Ainsworth, right?

John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth work, absolutely.

But he was the first to translate that work to adults and romantic partners.

Like, he's an icon, and...

His new book, Secure, is just as great.

It's just as great because it removes just the self-identification piece and it pulls out to, okay, how do you apply this theory to your life?

From the conversation, and this shows you how an ego stroke is always good, is

Well, I learned that we have basically the same attachment styles to our partners and friends and coworkers.

So when I was like, all right, if we have this same attachment style, my attachment style can't be that all bad.

It can't be bad.