Paul C. Brunson
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
You go through all of those things before acceptance.
And that's totally understandable.
You're grieving the death of this marriage.
And so, again, you have to ask yourself, what's the goal?
Because I'll tell you the truth, not only can you not win a divorce, you can't win a fight with your spouse.
You can't, you will never win a fight with your spouse.
If you win, you lost.
You made them feel small.
You won, yay, victory, great job.
You made your spouse feel dumb.
You made your spouse feel small.
You made your spouse feel sad.
Or you lose the argument and then you lost the argument.
You can't win an argument with your spouse.
Like because the idea of this
is connection, to stay connected to each other.
Anything that is antagonistic to that connection is the enemy of marriage.
Yeah.
So the best thing you could always do is go talk to a lawyer sooner rather than later.
It's confidential.