Paul C. Brunson

No one's ever going to find out.

They're not allowed to tell anybody.

I have people who come in a year, two years, three years before they're actually even going to file or when

Oh, I've had people who come in 10 years before.

It's great.

People, listen, some people are super tactical and some people it's that they're kind of, we call them tire kickers.

Like they're like, well, the relationship's not going great.

And I want to know like, what are my rights and obligations and what are things I should be thinking about?

Wait a minute.

Look, I'm going to make the argument right now that you should see a divorce lawyer before you get married.

I think you should understand before you get married,

what a court would be looking at and thinking about in a divorce in the event your marriage ends in the likely, statistically likely outcome, which is divorce.

Why wouldn't you sit down with a divorce lawyer?

I can explain to you legally what's about to happen when you get married, what changes to your rights and obligations are about to happen, and I can explain to you that, for example, your friend,

Your friend is married to someone who their relationship is tenuous.

He's not sure.

Maybe this is a combative person, a vindictive person.

And by the way, you divorced the person you were married to.

So, you know, like people, one of the most astounding things still after so many years of doing this is people come in and they'll say to me like, I can't believe he's being so vindictive and cheap and angry.

I'm like, oh, what was he like during the marriage?