Paul C. Brunson

So you want the kids to not be around that and you don't really feel like it.

So you stay away.

Okay, now you're setting up a terrible custody case because you're not home.

She's the primary caregiver to the children.

She does most of the heavy lifting of day-to-day parenting.

You have set up a bad custody case in the future.

So now again,

Do you think anybody, if they came into my office and I gave them that conversation, that primer on, look, I hope your marriage doesn't end.

And if it ends, I hope you don't have a custody battle.

But if you did, here's the kinds of things the judge might look at.

And here's some ways to do it.

Do you think anybody would have that meeting with me and then go, you know, I was really happy in my marriage before this, but now I'm going to go home and just get divorced.

Like, no, you just like I get a physical every year.

Right.

One of the lawyers who works for me for many years now, he doesn't get a physical.

And when I said to him, hey, man, you're over 40.

Why don't you get a physical?

He goes, I don't want to know.

I kind of hate doctors.

I was like, OK, not having a physical is a guaranteed way to end up eventually seeing a whole bunch of doctors.