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Paul C. Brunson

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

Like have an honest conversation with yourself and your counsel about who is my partner.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

Because if you're against someone who's going to be villainous potentially, you've got to bring a different toolkit to the situation.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

Like it's better to have a trial lawyer and not need me

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

than to need a trial lawyer and hire a mediator because you think maybe if I hire a really friendly person that it'll keep it friendly.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

It's not how it works.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

Like, it's not how it works.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

Like, the main levers in my experience as a litigator are fear and greed.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

It's not empathy.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

It's not empathy.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

It's not compassion.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

It's fear and greed.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

My job is to cultivate leverage and decide how and when to use it.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

But three is really... Three is to shore up the fences and get good lawyer and really trust your counsel if you found good counsel.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

And then trust the fact that sometimes the path to peace is war.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

There are so many people in New York City who hate me.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

because I was a weapon pointed at them.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

And my job was to take them apart.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

And I did it.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

And I did it well.

We Need To Talk with Paul C. Brunson
The Divorce Lawyer Reveals Why Marriages Really Fail

And I'm proud that I did it because it's my job.