Paul C. Brunson

Would you spend 10 minutes a week, 10 minutes a day to just cultivate it and water it and cherish it, to tell her every single day, I have you, I found you.

8 billion people, I found you.

Like, this to me is the most beautiful thing in the world and we treat it

like it's disposable, like we have it, we take it for granted, we forget about it, we just don't do anything with it.

That to me is baffling.

It's baffling.

Yeah, and seen.

And seen.

I think that, and I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on this, because I see in your writing, like, you touch this, and it is a contradiction, but I see you as, like, identifying it as a contradiction.

I love it.

People get married, and they make two opposite mistakes that seem like contradictions.

One is...

this will change this person.

Like if we get married, things will change.

Like right now, he doesn't really take our relationship seriously, but if we get married, he will.

Right now, he drinks too much, but if we get married, he won't.

Or right now, she doesn't really take our relationship seriously and she doesn't make it a priority, but if we get married, she will.

So thinking that marriage will change the relationship is a mistake.

Yes, I agree, agreed.

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