Paul Eastwick

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Sonia and Simon · Why Your “Type” Is Ruining Your Love Life | Paul Eastwick · 24 May 2026 podcast

Who's picking up the check right now?

100%.

That's your love language, huh?

I mean, I would answer, I mean, again, if this is somebody that you're into and you're making a connection with them, you know, I would want to be like, I think we should invent one.

What should our love language be?

We should, yeah, we should, you know, let's figure it out.

What are you doing on Saturday?

Yeah.

So all relationships are going to be a mix of similarities and dissimilarities, full stop.

And there's nothing that I could assess ahead of time to predict whether a dissimilarity is going to be a relationship killer or it's going to be a source of joy like what you're describing.

So this is the thing is that people have the freedom to interpret all of these similarities, all these dissimilarities, however they want.

And what people do in relationships that are thriving is they take the, you know, they take the fun dissimilarities and they talk about them and they highlight them and they joke about them at parties.

And they take the less fun dissimilarities and they put it in a little box and they slide it away and they say, that's not important.

and if it sounds like i'm suggesting that that there's something wrong with that i'm not that's a great idea but couples it's very important to lean into the things that work and to compartmentalize the things that don't yes it is motivated reasoning and motivated reasoning is very important

for sustaining close relationships.

So you can't fear the dissimilarities because there will always be some in there.

You just have to find the ones that are fun.

And if they're not fun, if they're actually causing you stress, then yeah, maybe that's a bad sign.

But the ability to compartmentalize the dissimilarities that aren't so fun is an important thing to be able to do.

Um, I can't, you know, it's a good question.

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