Paul Eastwick
speaker
1,562 appearances
7 recordings
3 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 24 May
Paul Eastwick’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Oh, absolutely.
Look, I enjoy these memes and jokes as much as the next person.
I think it's deeply hilarious.
At the same time, if people are being serious about this, these things are not all that consequential.
Look, if this is about a real person that you spent time with and that they do something on the third date that genuinely gives you a sense of ick,
It's not like you can will your way out of that.
So the real ick on a real date that is a real response to something that somebody did, that's a real feeling and you got to listen to that.
But I think the social media version of this thing is actually just a blown out version of a bunch of deal breakers.
but now done to humorous effect.
And again, I get the joke.
I like it.
It's funny.
Don't actually create a long list of deal breakers.
In fact, I would like people to not even really think about deal breakers all that much at all and go into interactions just checking in with how you feel about this person and how you feel about yourself when interacting with this person.
And if they got the Velcro wallet and I don't know, maybe he's like got a gold chain, but you feel funny around him.
I want you to listen to that and not worry about the Velcro wallet and the gold chain.
Oh, it's a good question.
You know, I think it's a mixed bag.
I think in general, look, one of the most exciting parts of forming a relationship is the discovery of differences, the discovery that somebody else is not like you in certain ways.
And it's often a chance for people to try on new identities and interests and preferences.
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