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Paul Larache

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
399 total appearances

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Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

It's always looking out for itself, which makes perfect sense when you think about it.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

It's tribal in the sense that we need to cooperate with others to survive.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

But there's other things in it, like you mentioned status and appearance, you know, that makes our old brain actually quite vain and thin skinned, but all for a good reason.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

Because if it made people focus on their status and appearance and where they were in the pecking order, then they would have an opportunity to find a better mate and pass on better genes to the next generation.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

So it all keeps coming back to evolution.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

Okay.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

Well, my marketing hat would say it would depend on what the product or service is.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

In the book, I talk about there's three โ€“

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

We are basically emotional machines that think.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

We're not thinking machines that are emotional.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

And people have to, once they grasp that, then they say, okay, if it's emotion, what emotion is driving it?

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

And I break the emotions into kind of three areas.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

One is the heart.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

which has everything to do with love, belonging, family, just as the metaphor says, the heart.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

Then I talk about the gut.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

And the gut really was because, again, through most of our evolution, food was scarce.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

And you really went out of your way to hoard and, you know, hunter-gatherers.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

to make sure that you had something for a rainy day.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

Today, we never even, that doesn't even cross our mind, but it did for most of our evolution.

Escaping the Drift with John Gafford
Building a High-Performance Life - Paul Larache

And then the third part is actually your genitals, your sexual reproductive organs, because that has a lot to do with status.