Pete Wright
speaker
2,973 appearances
11 recordings
1 series
first heard May 2026
last heard 13 Aug
Pete Wright’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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did some research on self determination theory and ADHD.
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Seeking connection, autonomy, and emotional feedback, a self-determination theory for self-regulation and attention deficit hyperactivity disorder.
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Okay, what does that all that mean?
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Years of correlation of correction, years of correction from authority figures creates an unconscious reliance on external validation.
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Pull it apart.
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Years of other people in perceived authority: teachers, principals, social workers, special ed teachers, parents, therapists.
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Telling us that we're doing something wrong outside of the norm, even if they're not saying it's wrong, if it's outside of the norm when you're a kid, it's perceived as wrong.
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This creates a reliance on external validation as an adult.
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This is not.
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a a a weakness per se.
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It's a survival adaptation that worked when we were eight years old.
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And it does not work at forty eight years old.
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Does not work.
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and we no longer there is no authority figure.
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That is expecting to give us correction at the same rate and style that we were getting it when we were eight years old.
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That's not happening anymore.
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So we have to tear.
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Apart.
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The reliance on external validation, which becomes the first biggest muscle that you have to build in order to give yourself permission slips to do the stuff that you need to do to live your life.
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Thoughts.
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