Phoebe

Uh, generalized anxiety.

Um, he's a full-time student.

He's been going to therapy, which I think is helpful because, uh, his friends aren't really that supportive.

They just say, Oh, that sucks, bro.

Uh, versus I have a community of, you know, women that I can connect with after this incident.

How can we move through this?

I mean, is it just therapy?

I kind of feel like I was extremely violated by the person that I live with and am supposed to trust.

I mean, it was a pretty brutal kind of beat down.

It just does not feel the same anymore.

He is not.

He is.

Okay.

And he feels very bad about this, extremely guilty.

I do like that idea.

I do.

I think I'm also struggling with, we've been doing the whole IVF thing, trying to have kids.

And then I worry about if he's sleep deprived, you know, with a baby and, you know, would do something to hurt the baby.

I mean, he is very, when he is asleep, he is very convincing that he is awake.

He can turn the light on, walk around, make eye contact with you, have a conversation and he's actually asleep.