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And Hayden also said, as a neurodivergent, it makes me feel like I'm struggling.

I think this is a really great point as well.

I think, you know, a lot of people do struggle with physical affection, eye contact, touching, texture, sense, smell, if you are neurodivergent.

So I can kind of imagine that would be something that maybe people struggle with.

Yeah, and is there like some like weird internalised shame thing as well as to why you don't want to be seen as like,

especially for men dating women potentially maybe like that is seen as like submissive or feminine to be like you know touchy and feely with their partner but then again on the opposite end then there are some guys who you see who like aggressively like grope their girls backside and you're kind of like oh you're marking like your territory and you're basically being like yeah that's my girl yeah so it's almost like an alpha thing in that sense as well oh there's so much to pull out of this actually

What do you think of that?

You just look like you're about to say something.

Well, I'm like, is that because he told her to pull back?

That's what I read.

I felt like it sounded like maybe a slight retaliation of him being like, hey, can you dial it down?

And then she goes, fine, you don't get anything.

Yeah, yeah, interesting.

We also had this one from Jess who you heard from before who holds hands during dinner and falls asleep holding hands and texts saying I love you to her partner.

So obviously Jess, big fan of PDA, but she had an instance where her PDA with her partner actually affected somebody else.

Yeah.

And then I keep going back to what Jeff said, where it's like, oh, well, is there a way to compromise?

Like, I don't know.

Like, because you're right.

Like, if you feel like you need to receive love in that way, then I don't know if you can change that.