Pip Rasmussen

This is so interesting and I have so many questions which I think will get answered by an expert.

So like where does that insecurity and shame come from?

Like obviously G being like I felt like I would be perceived as cringe and not cute or anything.

So I'm like where does that come from?

Is it like a familial thing?

Like did your family not hug and kiss and touch when you were growing up?

Like is it an attachment style?

Yeah, and like how do you identify whether your insecurity around showing affection or giving or receiving it is like a shame thing or is like it's just you're hardwired that way.

Like it's your personality.

You're just like I just don't hug people or I just don't do that and it's not how I show love.

Interesting.

Yeah, no, let's definitely get an expert.

I think we have so much to discuss with them.

Okay, so we've said a few times in this episode already talking about the potentially performative aspect of PDA.

And that's something that we wanted to explore a little bit and unpack because we were like, is it just something that you do to put on a show for other people and it's not really genuine or authentic?

Or is it just a sign of you having a really healthy, secure relationship where you don't give a fuck about what other people think and you feel very comfortable to share your love in a public way?

See, this is like the opposite of what you had.

Yeah.

Where you were like at home, very touchy-feely baby, love it.

Outside, crickets, cold.