Pip Rasmussen

Something about that does feel a bit off.

Yeah, I see that.

I feel like there's probably some deep quote about like the difference between like performing for yourself or performing for other people as well and being so obsessed with how you're being perceived and maybe then also like lying to yourself and performing to yourself and being like, yeah, no, I like love this person or like, no, it's like whatever.

I wonder if it's linked to that kind of.

Oh, it must be for sure.

I mean, we've talked about it and like we have episodes in the feed that you can go and check out if you're like interested in deep diving into how social media like shapes the way that we love and show love.

We talk about it a lot on there, but

Yeah.

And like I was saying at the top as well, like love bombers who this this is like that's performative to them.

Like they're trying to whisk you away with this idea of them and like get you to fall in love with the idea of them.

But it's not really them.

Yeah.

Which makes me think that if someone is PDAing with you very soon, too soon, and you feel like little red flags or alarm bells, like you should probably listen to that.

I kind of worry you are together.

I kind of worry about that for myself because I love physical affection.

And I think like, yeah, you get swept up in that honeymoon kind of period.

And then I worry about like future me being like, oh, no, it's not happening as much, even though I know what it's like to be in a long term relationship and stuff.

You haven't straddled me.

Yeah.

Yeah, like is it a problem and is it a normal, natural thing of a relationship and should you be worried if it's like... Oh, actually, no.