Prof. Chris French

So this is the idea that like if you're in a fight with a narcissist, you're You basically become so still and so boring and quiet that you are acting like a gray rock. Oh.

So this is the idea that like if you're in a fight with a narcissist, you're You basically become so still and so boring and quiet that you are acting like a gray rock. Oh.

We don't really have science here, but Craig says this is a tactic that people have found useful. The key is that you give the other person as little ammunition as possible.

We don't really have science here, but Craig says this is a tactic that people have found useful. The key is that you give the other person as little ammunition as possible.

Yeah, Craig was definitely like, that is something worth considering. And he also really wanted to relay to people that if you feel unsafe in your relationship, your priority should not be on using these techniques to improve communication. It should be on making sure you're safe.

Yeah, Craig was definitely like, that is something worth considering. And he also really wanted to relay to people that if you feel unsafe in your relationship, your priority should not be on using these techniques to improve communication. It should be on making sure you're safe.

Well, it's just been a good reminder that when we start to focus on ourselves too much, it can be harmful and it can actually like make you less happy. And it makes me really want to catch those moments where I'm doing that, where I'm like really spinning around about myself, my own life. legacy or what people think of me, noting when that's actually to a point where it's not helpful.

Well, it's just been a good reminder that when we start to focus on ourselves too much, it can be harmful and it can actually like make you less happy. And it makes me really want to catch those moments where I'm doing that, where I'm like really spinning around about myself, my own life. legacy or what people think of me, noting when that's actually to a point where it's not helpful.

It's making me less happy than I would be otherwise. I think that's a takeaway that even someone who's scored low on the narcissism spectrum, not to brag, can take away. It's like especially low, I would say.

It's making me less happy than I would be otherwise. I think that's a takeaway that even someone who's scored low on the narcissism spectrum, not to brag, can take away. It's like especially low, I would say.

Even me can benefit from thinking about narcissism.

Even me can benefit from thinking about narcissism.

I lucid dreamed. I realized I could lucid dream. It was a big deal.

I lucid dreamed. I realized I could lucid dream. It was a big deal.

Happy New Year, everyone. Happy holidays.

Happy New Year, everyone. Happy holidays.