Quinlan Walther

Crazy.

Yeah.

And that's a good thing to ask if you're already in a relationship too.

If you have a conversation with the person you're with, like, hey, is this feeling the way you want it to feel?

Pulse check.

What's up?

Is there anything that I can do?

Is there better ways that I can love you?

I mean, again, it's kind of a cliche at this point, but do you know how the person you're with wants to be loved?

Or are you coming in so big and bold and self-obsessed that you're only giving what you want to receive?

Looking outside of yourself.

Yes.

I'd venture to guess it's indicative of a bigger issue.

Like the not handling bad times is actually a symptom of a bigger issue.

Not handling bad times well.

Where just take consideration.

General consideration for someone else's well-being.

If you don't naturally have that, if you aren't actively working on that, if you aren't aware that that's important in this relationship...

you're definitely not going to show up with that in bad times.

And that would make the good times a hundred times better.