Rachel Bernstein
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Yes, it is stressful for a lot of people and they do sometimes reach their limit with it at some point. And you don't always know what it's going to be that's going to be their tipping point, but there's going to be something. And sometimes it's just a surprising thing and unexpected, but they might get there. It sometimes takes them a lot longer individually.
Yes, it is stressful for a lot of people and they do sometimes reach their limit with it at some point. And you don't always know what it's going to be that's going to be their tipping point, but there's going to be something. And sometimes it's just a surprising thing and unexpected, but they might get there. It sometimes takes them a lot longer individually.
Yes, it is stressful for a lot of people and they do sometimes reach their limit with it at some point. And you don't always know what it's going to be that's going to be their tipping point, but there's going to be something. And sometimes it's just a surprising thing and unexpected, but they might get there. It sometimes takes them a lot longer individually.
And they need something that's even more disturbing to really kind of hit them over the head so they really get it. But I think it would be very uncomfortable for me to sit on my hands for a lot of things. And that's why I don't. And at the same time.
And they need something that's even more disturbing to really kind of hit them over the head so they really get it. But I think it would be very uncomfortable for me to sit on my hands for a lot of things. And that's why I don't. And at the same time.
And they need something that's even more disturbing to really kind of hit them over the head so they really get it. But I think it would be very uncomfortable for me to sit on my hands for a lot of things. And that's why I don't. And at the same time.
I've even seen with myself, there are some cases that I've chosen to not take on because it is, I don't know if I have the capacity because it's something that is going to be so disturbing to me. But I also will only say no to a case if I know there's someone else who I can hand it over to. I need to do something.
I've even seen with myself, there are some cases that I've chosen to not take on because it is, I don't know if I have the capacity because it's something that is going to be so disturbing to me. But I also will only say no to a case if I know there's someone else who I can hand it over to. I need to do something.
I've even seen with myself, there are some cases that I've chosen to not take on because it is, I don't know if I have the capacity because it's something that is going to be so disturbing to me. But I also will only say no to a case if I know there's someone else who I can hand it over to. I need to do something.
I need to at least offer a referral, a resource, so I know they're going to be in good hands. even if it's not mine. We sometimes have our limit still to do self-protection. So sometimes people are just more avoidant. And so they know how to jump in again and be the superhero. They know how to jump in in a positive way, like coming to someone's defense.
I need to at least offer a referral, a resource, so I know they're going to be in good hands. even if it's not mine. We sometimes have our limit still to do self-protection. So sometimes people are just more avoidant. And so they know how to jump in again and be the superhero. They know how to jump in in a positive way, like coming to someone's defense.
I need to at least offer a referral, a resource, so I know they're going to be in good hands. even if it's not mine. We sometimes have our limit still to do self-protection. So sometimes people are just more avoidant. And so they know how to jump in again and be the superhero. They know how to jump in in a positive way, like coming to someone's defense.
But really looking, really acknowledging, really feeling is overwhelming for their system. And they're probably intuiting that about themselves or assuming that about themselves. A lot of people assume it to a greater degree than it's actually true. People will jump in. They'll say, actually, I realized that wasn't as hard as I thought. In fact, it felt a lot better once I was there.
But really looking, really acknowledging, really feeling is overwhelming for their system. And they're probably intuiting that about themselves or assuming that about themselves. A lot of people assume it to a greater degree than it's actually true. People will jump in. They'll say, actually, I realized that wasn't as hard as I thought. In fact, it felt a lot better once I was there.
But really looking, really acknowledging, really feeling is overwhelming for their system. And they're probably intuiting that about themselves or assuming that about themselves. A lot of people assume it to a greater degree than it's actually true. People will jump in. They'll say, actually, I realized that wasn't as hard as I thought. In fact, it felt a lot better once I was there.
But people will assume it. The other thing that happens, though, is that... you know, I've never met your sister, so I don't know how she operates, but there are people who will come across as the victim, but who give off signs of being terrifying and intimidating. And you can pick it up sometimes in a look. You can see, right, how much they work something and
But people will assume it. The other thing that happens, though, is that... you know, I've never met your sister, so I don't know how she operates, but there are people who will come across as the victim, but who give off signs of being terrifying and intimidating. And you can pick it up sometimes in a look. You can see, right, how much they work something and
But people will assume it. The other thing that happens, though, is that... you know, I've never met your sister, so I don't know how she operates, but there are people who will come across as the victim, but who give off signs of being terrifying and intimidating. And you can pick it up sometimes in a look. You can see, right, how much they work something and
And you know that because you've seen it, you know that's going to be turned on you and then some. And so you then go into avoiding all of it because you can see what's going to happen if you kind of cross this person. And you go into, without even realizing it, you are already dealing with behavior modification issues. And just because you'll get the look or something.
And you know that because you've seen it, you know that's going to be turned on you and then some. And so you then go into avoiding all of it because you can see what's going to happen if you kind of cross this person. And you go into, without even realizing it, you are already dealing with behavior modification issues. And just because you'll get the look or something.