Rachel Cruze

But for some reason, if something ever happened in a divorce, this part still goes back to me. Does that make sense? I wonder if framing it. That's a good way to frame it. Because it can be hers, right? Like you guys can share on this. It's the only time it's not hers is if you guys legally go through a divorce. Does that make sense?

But for some reason, if something ever happened in a divorce, this part still goes back to me. Does that make sense? I wonder if framing it. That's a good way to frame it. Because it can be hers, right? Like you guys can share on this. It's the only time it's not hers is if you guys legally go through a divorce. Does that make sense?

But for some reason, if something ever happened in a divorce, this part still goes back to me. Does that make sense? I wonder if framing it. That's a good way to frame it. Because it can be hers, right? Like you guys can share on this. It's the only time it's not hers is if you guys legally go through a divorce. Does that make sense?

Yeah. And it sounds like that's, yeah. And that sounds like your attitude because you're going to take some of our money and we're going to buy a house together with this money and use this money for our family. So I think it's, it's such a fine line, Derek. I mean, it's so hard, but I think I would keep it and bring in a third party.

Yeah. And it sounds like that's, yeah. And that sounds like your attitude because you're going to take some of our money and we're going to buy a house together with this money and use this money for our family. So I think it's, it's such a fine line, Derek. I mean, it's so hard, but I think I would keep it and bring in a third party.

Yeah. And it sounds like that's, yeah. And that sounds like your attitude because you're going to take some of our money and we're going to buy a house together with this money and use this money for our family. So I think it's, it's such a fine line, Derek. I mean, it's so hard, but I think I would keep it and bring in a third party.

If there's a great marriage counselor or therapist, honestly, it's something to think through and even get other opinions because yeah, you want to be on the same page with this.

If there's a great marriage counselor or therapist, honestly, it's something to think through and even get other opinions because yeah, you want to be on the same page with this.

If there's a great marriage counselor or therapist, honestly, it's something to think through and even get other opinions because yeah, you want to be on the same page with this.

Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. Up next, we have Melissa in Charleston, West Virginia. Hi, Melissa. Welcome to the show. Hi. How are you? Doing great. How can we help?

Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. Up next, we have Melissa in Charleston, West Virginia. Hi, Melissa. Welcome to the show. Hi. How are you? Doing great. How can we help?

Welcome back to The Ramsey Show. Up next, we have Melissa in Charleston, West Virginia. Hi, Melissa. Welcome to the show. Hi. How are you? Doing great. How can we help?

Have you had any estimates on what it would cost to try to go through? And I mean, mold is such a, it's such a frustrating part of the, you know, that whole process of renovation, but have you talked to anybody? Yeah.

Have you had any estimates on what it would cost to try to go through? And I mean, mold is such a, it's such a frustrating part of the, you know, that whole process of renovation, but have you talked to anybody? Yeah.

Have you had any estimates on what it would cost to try to go through? And I mean, mold is such a, it's such a frustrating part of the, you know, that whole process of renovation, but have you talked to anybody? Yeah.

How much are you making a year, Melissa?

How much are you making a year, Melissa?

How much are you making a year, Melissa?

Okay, that's good. So, Melissa, I almost would just go rent somewhere. I mean, be paying the mortgage, go rent, because this isn't feasible. The two-and-a-half-hour thing, I think that adds stress. I think that's exhausting everybody, pulling the kids out of the routine. I mean, that's just miserable. I would just go rent somewhere. Go rent a one-, two-bedroom apartment, knowing it's short-term.

Okay, that's good. So, Melissa, I almost would just go rent somewhere. I mean, be paying the mortgage, go rent, because this isn't feasible. The two-and-a-half-hour thing, I think that adds stress. I think that's exhausting everybody, pulling the kids out of the routine. I mean, that's just miserable. I would just go rent somewhere. Go rent a one-, two-bedroom apartment, knowing it's short-term.