Rachel Cruze

Mm-hmm. But as you guys have experienced, you know, there is a reality to all of this. And whenever any of us get married, right, I think there is like this like, okay, I'm choosing you for a reason and for a lifetime. But we also don't live under a rock and know that things change in life and situations come up.

Mm-hmm. But as you guys have experienced, you know, there is a reality to all of this. And whenever any of us get married, right, I think there is like this like, okay, I'm choosing you for a reason and for a lifetime. But we also don't live under a rock and know that things change in life and situations come up.

And unfortunately, some really hard things happen and does cause marriages to break up, right, to enter into divorce. And we don't want that. So... What were the I'm curious, what were the parts of it that was making her because you guys went through a questionnaire together and it didn't sound like the questionnaire brought up a lot of red flags.

And unfortunately, some really hard things happen and does cause marriages to break up, right, to enter into divorce. And we don't want that. So... What were the I'm curious, what were the parts of it that was making her because you guys went through a questionnaire together and it didn't sound like the questionnaire brought up a lot of red flags.

And unfortunately, some really hard things happen and does cause marriages to break up, right, to enter into divorce. And we don't want that. So... What were the I'm curious, what were the parts of it that was making her because you guys went through a questionnaire together and it didn't sound like the questionnaire brought up a lot of red flags.

But when she was actually like reading it, does she feel like she won't be taken care of if something happens or like what's the what's that underlying concern?

But when she was actually like reading it, does she feel like she won't be taken care of if something happens or like what's the what's that underlying concern?

But when she was actually like reading it, does she feel like she won't be taken care of if something happens or like what's the what's that underlying concern?

Yeah. Yeah, well, it sounds like you're being very gracious about this, Derek. I think it's such a hard line to be wise in a situation and being... I mean, you don't sound like you're drawing these crazy hard lines and you know what I mean? And you're pushing it like it's... Your tone feels very humble and gracious, which I... Yeah, I mean, I think she probably very much appreciates. So, yeah.

Yeah. Yeah, well, it sounds like you're being very gracious about this, Derek. I think it's such a hard line to be wise in a situation and being... I mean, you don't sound like you're drawing these crazy hard lines and you know what I mean? And you're pushing it like it's... Your tone feels very humble and gracious, which I... Yeah, I mean, I think she probably very much appreciates. So, yeah.

Yeah. Yeah, well, it sounds like you're being very gracious about this, Derek. I think it's such a hard line to be wise in a situation and being... I mean, you don't sound like you're drawing these crazy hard lines and you know what I mean? And you're pushing it like it's... Your tone feels very humble and gracious, which I... Yeah, I mean, I think she probably very much appreciates. So, yeah.

I'm trying to think if I... We're in her position, which you never can fully do for somebody. You know, there's a part of me that I don't know. I think I would understand you're coming in with 12 million. And I understand that's not mine right now. Right. Like there's I don't know.

I'm trying to think if I... We're in her position, which you never can fully do for somebody. You know, there's a part of me that I don't know. I think I would understand you're coming in with 12 million. And I understand that's not mine right now. Right. Like there's I don't know.

I'm trying to think if I... We're in her position, which you never can fully do for somebody. You know, there's a part of me that I don't know. I think I would understand you're coming in with 12 million. And I understand that's not mine right now. Right. Like there's I don't know.

Are you an anti-prenup?

Are you an anti-prenup?

Are you an anti-prenup?

I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just tough. Well, and I think too, Derek, I think it's, I think it can feel like the $12 million is off in this corner and we're never going to participate in it. But I think it comes into its mind if something happens. But up until that point, it's ours. We're sharing assets. That's a good point. That is a very good point. We are living our lives together as one.

I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just tough. Well, and I think too, Derek, I think it's, I think it can feel like the $12 million is off in this corner and we're never going to participate in it. But I think it comes into its mind if something happens. But up until that point, it's ours. We're sharing assets. That's a good point. That is a very good point. We are living our lives together as one.

I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just tough. Well, and I think too, Derek, I think it's, I think it can feel like the $12 million is off in this corner and we're never going to participate in it. But I think it comes into its mind if something happens. But up until that point, it's ours. We're sharing assets. That's a good point. That is a very good point. We are living our lives together as one.