Rachel Wilkerson Miller

I hope that more men feel comfortable pursuing these things if they feel nice to them.

And again, beauty can be defined however you want it to be.

Curiosity can lead you wherever it leads you.

It should be sort of this authentic experience.

But I would hate for people to deprive themselves of art and connection with other people and good food and joy and play because they feel like it competes with their version of what their gender should be.

Like, honestly, that idea bums me out so much.

So I hope that if men don't feel comfortable with this right now that they stop and think, like, there's space for you here.

And...

even if it feels a little hard at first, I think once you start to do it, it's such an immediate gratification that you kind of stop thinking about that stuff.

I think it's the vulnerability and the community piece that makes it harder.

But again, people really want to connect.

They really want to make friends.

They're hoping somebody will offer that.

And so again, if that's what you want, just reach out.

Again, there will be somebody there who's excited to hear from you.

There's so many ways to define your nice life.

And I think I tried to pick things that felt really universal across time and space.

But I think this is really about making decisions that matter to you with intention.

And you can't do that if you don't know what matters to you.

So...