Randy Paterson

They've never been in a swimming pool before, but I'll get into that pool the moment I feel confident. Well, you're never going to get into that pool. You will feel confident after you've been in the pool, unconfident for a while. So confidence and assertiveness are very, very much linked. But if we wait for the confidence, the assertiveness will never come.

They've never been in a swimming pool before, but I'll get into that pool the moment I feel confident. Well, you're never going to get into that pool. You will feel confident after you've been in the pool, unconfident for a while. So confidence and assertiveness are very, very much linked. But if we wait for the confidence, the assertiveness will never come.

They've never been in a swimming pool before, but I'll get into that pool the moment I feel confident. Well, you're never going to get into that pool. You will feel confident after you've been in the pool, unconfident for a while. So confidence and assertiveness are very, very much linked. But if we wait for the confidence, the assertiveness will never come.

To control yourself, your own behavior, and in effect to be giving up on controlling other people's behavior. We often want to change the steps that other people are making in this dance. And what we need to do is refocus on our own feet and change our own steps instead. It's an ecological system. You change one thing, others will change as a result.

To control yourself, your own behavior, and in effect to be giving up on controlling other people's behavior. We often want to change the steps that other people are making in this dance. And what we need to do is refocus on our own feet and change our own steps instead. It's an ecological system. You change one thing, others will change as a result.

To control yourself, your own behavior, and in effect to be giving up on controlling other people's behavior. We often want to change the steps that other people are making in this dance. And what we need to do is refocus on our own feet and change our own steps instead. It's an ecological system. You change one thing, others will change as a result.

You need to change what you have control over, and that's you.

You need to change what you have control over, and that's you.

You need to change what you have control over, and that's you.