Reggie Watts

I can do it.

And this person feels seen.

Yeah, just just like, you know, I'm going to give that the trade off is like, I'm not going to communicate what's going on, but I will like be the best person I can be every time we hang out.

You know, that was like the trade off.

Yeah.

And that was that was OK.

But then like when I started, you know, when I ran into the poly community, it really just kind of opened up my community.

ability to communicate.

And I think that was actually the perfect space for me to start.

And then I started seeing a psychiatrist or psychologist or therapist.

And they, you know, we worked on communication and it was nice.

And I had like a few people that I was seeing towards the end before meeting Catherine that were highly, highly communicative, super intelligent, very open, smart, pragmatic people that also helped me

Um, with the moment that I transitioned, even though it wasn't like the best for one of the people, it was a harder transition because we were starting to get closer.

And then I got blindsided by, by Catherine.

Um, and we know, but we were still really good friends and, um, and I love her and, and, you know, it's cool.

Catherine was really cool too.

She was very patient, you know, with, in the beginning, because I was seeing other people, um,

And that quickly tailored off.

And she was very patient about that.

I think she just knew.