Rickey Smiley

And then you need to prepare your family for your death.

and get things in order and in place and change your will up every month or two, you know, as much as you need to.

Yeah.

I need to.

It's so important as a man, not to leave your family in because they already going to be going through the grief process.

So you don't want to leave them in chaos.

And have everything organized.

Like I had my mom, you know, my stepdad and,

get this stuff together.

And she came over one day, she put an envelope in my hand.

Okay.

I mean, it didn't happen to me.

Here you go.

Yeah.

And of course I opened it up right then and start reading through this stuff or whatever, looking at stuff, asking questions or whatever, you know, just mess with it.

But, uh, yeah, death is a part of life, but you don't expect for your children to die.

You don't, you don't expect for your children to die.

And, uh,

I also talk about therapy in the book and the importance of going to therapy because when I went to therapy, I started opening it up, talking about this.

It wasn't just that.