Rima Grace

This is how I operate.

It's not personal.

Yeah.

Exactly.

It's like a time to be like, listen, I just I don't really do that.

Like I don't do the key thing.

I think it's just like it might get really messy.

I could help you if you in other ways.

But it's just like to me, it's like a hard no.

And if if you give in at all, it's over.

It's over.

Yeah.

I also think this is an example of how easily your friends and co-worker lines can get blurred.

I don't know if you've been in this position where, like, I've had to remind myself in the past, like, oh, yeah, they are my friend, but they're also kind of my co-worker first.

She's talking about me right now.

i know as i was saying this i was like i hope alice doesn't think i'm talking about her but no but it got to the point noted no but like in my early 20s i was like such an overshare with my co-workers and i don't necessarily regret it but it did blur the lines in a way where like suddenly i was at work crying in a booth telling them about the latest drama in my life and i was like okay maybe for my own sanity

I should have some stricter boundaries here.

Oh, yeah, big time.

I think it's just one of those things you really have to, like, be like, it's a hard no.

Like, it's just never going to happen.