Rob Dial

And you don't have as much as you wanted.

And you didn't create the life that you want.

Whose fault would it be?

I was like, that would be my fault.

He's like, and if you did have the love, the joy, the happiness, everything you've ever wanted, you create an amazing life and you're on your deathbed.

Whose fault would that be?

And I was like, that'd be my fault.

And he said, so the problem with you, Rob, is you're blaming everybody else but yourself.

You're not showing up.

You're not taking your life seriously.

And you're not acting like the CEO of your life.

And I was like, 10-4.

Got it.

From that moment on, I was like, everything is my responsibility.

Right?

The good, the bad, the still working on it.

And it's not...

The thing that I want you to understand is it's not about shame and shaming myself to do it.

It's about power.

Because as long as something is out there that's responsible for my happiness or responsible for my money or responsible for my joy or my love, whatever it might be, as long as it's out there, I'm going to stay stuck.