Rob Dial

How many times have you over-explained yourself to somebody as to why you're not good enough, why you have fears, why you have limiting beliefs, why your trauma is holding you back, why your parents didn't give you what you want, why it's the president's fault or the economy's fault or another nation's fault or Nancy and accounting's fault.

It's always a fault of something versus being like, I don't give a shit.

I'm going to be obsessed with what I want.

I'm going to get it no matter what.

I see people unconsciously become lawyers for their fear.

Like they build a whole case.

A whole case.

Well, this is just how I am and I've always been anxious and I've never really been disciplined.

I'm not a disciplined person and I am bad with money and I'm just not the kind of person who follows through and I just self-sabotage and I'm also lazy and I'm like, damn.

you have an incredible amount of focus, like an incredible amount of focus, but you don't realize you're just aimed at the wrong thing.

Like you're aimed at who you used to be.

Like life is like this, at this moment right now, it's like from this moment back to the moment you were born is chapter one.

From this moment forward can be chapter two.

But a lot of people are just like, I want to keep reading chapter one.

I want to keep reading chapter one.

Most people are aimed and focused, hardcore, consciously and unconsciously on who they used to be versus who they want to be versus the life that they're trying to build.

Because obsession is not something that you think about sometimes.

Obsession is something that you think about all of the time.

It's like this mental orbit.

It's always floating around in your head, right?