Rob Dial

like your real first love, the person that you were obsessed with, like you weren't, you weren't like casually interested in your first love.

Do you remember?

You weren't like, yeah, you know what?

Like I think about them every other Thursday when I finished doing my emails, right?

Like, no, it was like, you were insane.

Like you were checking your phone.

Like it was a medical device that was trying to keep you alive.

Like you heard their name.

Oh my God.

And like your whole nervous system lit up like a Christmas tree.

Like you heard anything, any song with the slightest little hint of a love song or just even a line inside of a song that sounded lovingly and like, oh my God.

And you think of them, right?

You drive and you pass like a yield sign.

And you remember the last time you passed that yield sign and they were sitting next to you, right?

Like you were almost unhealthy obsessed.

And I see this with so many people.

And I remember seeing it with my friends when I was in high school.

And I remember being this way in high school, right?

What I want to ask you though,

is what would happen if you brought that level of focus to like who you want to be in the life that you want?