Rob Henderson

partner is basically you know better quality than the alternatives realistic alternatives around you then people tend to be happy if the person is kind of less attractive than a potential realistic alternatives around you people tend to be less satisfied and that was especially true for people who evaluated themselves as being more attractive than their own partner and so i think that's that that may be the most sort of dangerous situation here is if um

partner is basically you know better quality than the alternatives realistic alternatives around you then people tend to be happy if the person is kind of less attractive than a potential realistic alternatives around you people tend to be less satisfied and that was especially true for people who evaluated themselves as being more attractive than their own partner and so i think that's that that may be the most sort of dangerous situation here is if um

you know, if you're with someone who views themselves as much more attractive than you, and also thinks, Oh, well, I could also do better. And I see all these other people around you, that this could could lead to a potential unstable relationship dynamic.

you know, if you're with someone who views themselves as much more attractive than you, and also thinks, Oh, well, I could also do better. And I see all these other people around you, that this could could lead to a potential unstable relationship dynamic.

you know, if you're with someone who views themselves as much more attractive than you, and also thinks, Oh, well, I could also do better. And I see all these other people around you, that this could could lead to a potential unstable relationship dynamic.

And so for a lot of guys, I think what they do ask them what they want, especially young guys, like under 25, they just, you know, I want the hottest possible girl, you know, physically perfect 10 out of 10, I want a dime. But then, you know, if you point out to them, well, you know, if you're

And so for a lot of guys, I think what they do ask them what they want, especially young guys, like under 25, they just, you know, I want the hottest possible girl, you know, physically perfect 10 out of 10, I want a dime. But then, you know, if you point out to them, well, you know, if you're

And so for a lot of guys, I think what they do ask them what they want, especially young guys, like under 25, they just, you know, I want the hottest possible girl, you know, physically perfect 10 out of 10, I want a dime. But then, you know, if you point out to them, well, you know, if you're

pretty average guy, and you do happen to land a date with some supermodel who, you know, maybe in another, you know, some other day of the week is going out with Leonardo DiCaprio on his yacht, that, you know, that's probably not going to work out for you.

pretty average guy, and you do happen to land a date with some supermodel who, you know, maybe in another, you know, some other day of the week is going out with Leonardo DiCaprio on his yacht, that, you know, that's probably not going to work out for you.

pretty average guy, and you do happen to land a date with some supermodel who, you know, maybe in another, you know, some other day of the week is going out with Leonardo DiCaprio on his yacht, that, you know, that's probably not going to work out for you.

And that may be another reason why we tend to mate assortatively is gradually over time, people kind of figure out where their level is and find someone who's roughly the same level of attractiveness as themselves. But yeah, there is that point there that, you know, what predicts relationship dissolution?

And that may be another reason why we tend to mate assortatively is gradually over time, people kind of figure out where their level is and find someone who's roughly the same level of attractiveness as themselves. But yeah, there is that point there that, you know, what predicts relationship dissolution?

And that may be another reason why we tend to mate assortatively is gradually over time, people kind of figure out where their level is and find someone who's roughly the same level of attractiveness as themselves. But yeah, there is that point there that, you know, what predicts relationship dissolution?

And it does seem to be, you know, people thinking to themselves, well, you know, is this really the best I could do? And this, I think, also has something to do with what we're seeing with the dating apps. Although I think this is sort of tapering off, but for the last...

And it does seem to be, you know, people thinking to themselves, well, you know, is this really the best I could do? And this, I think, also has something to do with what we're seeing with the dating apps. Although I think this is sort of tapering off, but for the last...

And it does seem to be, you know, people thinking to themselves, well, you know, is this really the best I could do? And this, I think, also has something to do with what we're seeing with the dating apps. Although I think this is sort of tapering off, but for the last...

basically since 2012 with the rise of Tinder, I think that probably contributed to kind of relationship instability is more and more people thinking that they could do better because of the apps. And then a lot of people realizing, actually, that's not the case.

basically since 2012 with the rise of Tinder, I think that probably contributed to kind of relationship instability is more and more people thinking that they could do better because of the apps. And then a lot of people realizing, actually, that's not the case.

basically since 2012 with the rise of Tinder, I think that probably contributed to kind of relationship instability is more and more people thinking that they could do better because of the apps. And then a lot of people realizing, actually, that's not the case.