Rob Henderson

less uh insecurity less mate guarding needed less jealousy less all of that stuff uh so yeah that's the that's a good way to go about it yeah yeah yeah i think that's yeah you can kind of like money ball your way into a relationship by going for people who are attractive maybe uniquely to you but that maybe others are overlooking in some way like that is yeah that's interesting i mean on the personality point i mean it is the case that

less uh insecurity less mate guarding needed less jealousy less all of that stuff uh so yeah that's the that's a good way to go about it yeah yeah yeah i think that's yeah you can kind of like money ball your way into a relationship by going for people who are attractive maybe uniquely to you but that maybe others are overlooking in some way like that is yeah that's interesting i mean on the personality point i mean it is the case that

less uh insecurity less mate guarding needed less jealousy less all of that stuff uh so yeah that's the that's a good way to go about it yeah yeah yeah i think that's yeah you can kind of like money ball your way into a relationship by going for people who are attractive maybe uniquely to you but that maybe others are overlooking in some way like that is yeah that's interesting i mean on the personality point i mean it is the case that

Similarity and personality is relatively low. I mean, statistically significant, but small correlations. But then what does seem to predict satisfaction is regardless of your own level of, say, conscientiousness, your partner's level of conscientiousness does seem to predict longer relationship duration. Interestingly, it also tends to predict your own level of career success.

Similarity and personality is relatively low. I mean, statistically significant, but small correlations. But then what does seem to predict satisfaction is regardless of your own level of, say, conscientiousness, your partner's level of conscientiousness does seem to predict longer relationship duration. Interestingly, it also tends to predict your own level of career success.

Similarity and personality is relatively low. I mean, statistically significant, but small correlations. But then what does seem to predict satisfaction is regardless of your own level of, say, conscientiousness, your partner's level of conscientiousness does seem to predict longer relationship duration. Interestingly, it also tends to predict your own level of career success.

So you and many of your listeners are familiar with the fact that, you know, obviously intelligence IQ that predicts career success, but then also conscientiousness of the big five personality traits. Conscientiousness has the strongest predictive power for how successful someone's going to be in their career.

So you and many of your listeners are familiar with the fact that, you know, obviously intelligence IQ that predicts career success, but then also conscientiousness of the big five personality traits. Conscientiousness has the strongest predictive power for how successful someone's going to be in their career.

So you and many of your listeners are familiar with the fact that, you know, obviously intelligence IQ that predicts career success, but then also conscientiousness of the big five personality traits. Conscientiousness has the strongest predictive power for how successful someone's going to be in their career.

But what was interesting is in one paper found that even when you control for the participants own level of conscientiousness, Their romantic partner's conscientiousness predicts their own career success, which suggests that if you have a partner who's hardworking, diligent, focused, and so on, that that also somehow benefits you in your own life.

But what was interesting is in one paper found that even when you control for the participants own level of conscientiousness, Their romantic partner's conscientiousness predicts their own career success, which suggests that if you have a partner who's hardworking, diligent, focused, and so on, that that also somehow benefits you in your own life.

But what was interesting is in one paper found that even when you control for the participants own level of conscientiousness, Their romantic partner's conscientiousness predicts their own career success, which suggests that if you have a partner who's hardworking, diligent, focused, and so on, that that also somehow benefits you in your own life.

Even small things like making appointments, following up on emails, all of those kinds of things, you know, that compounds over time having someone who's very switched on like that. And then, yeah, other traits as well. I mean... for, for relationship satisfaction. Agreeableness is one, uh, low levels of neuroticism and, um, and then, yeah, high, high intelligence is, is another.

Even small things like making appointments, following up on emails, all of those kinds of things, you know, that compounds over time having someone who's very switched on like that. And then, yeah, other traits as well. I mean... for, for relationship satisfaction. Agreeableness is one, uh, low levels of neuroticism and, um, and then, yeah, high, high intelligence is, is another.

Even small things like making appointments, following up on emails, all of those kinds of things, you know, that compounds over time having someone who's very switched on like that. And then, yeah, other traits as well. I mean... for, for relationship satisfaction. Agreeableness is one, uh, low levels of neuroticism and, um, and then, yeah, high, high intelligence is, is another.

Um, and so it's interesting that even though the similarities aren't especially high, uh, within couples, if you want a relationship to last, it's good to have sort of more rather than less of, of many of these traits.

Um, and so it's interesting that even though the similarities aren't especially high, uh, within couples, if you want a relationship to last, it's good to have sort of more rather than less of, of many of these traits.

Um, and so it's interesting that even though the similarities aren't especially high, uh, within couples, if you want a relationship to last, it's good to have sort of more rather than less of, of many of these traits.

Yeah, I mean, all of those, you know, there's sort of volatility clusters around neuroticism or low emotional stability. And it's interesting, I'm reading this, this person, it's called The Person, A New Introduction to Personality Psychology, new textbook, sort of covering the latest in that whole field.

Yeah, I mean, all of those, you know, there's sort of volatility clusters around neuroticism or low emotional stability. And it's interesting, I'm reading this, this person, it's called The Person, A New Introduction to Personality Psychology, new textbook, sort of covering the latest in that whole field.