Rob Henderson
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881 appearances
5 recordings
4 series
first heard Apr 2025
last heard 6 Aug
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Yeah.
or, or yeah, get funneled into these toxic online platforms where, you know, instead of getting help, they, they instead seek, you know, kind of material.
Is this the girl boss gatekeeping idea here?
Danny Silikowski's work?
Okay.
Interesting.
So monogamy in particular.
Yeah, well, whenever you see media outlets with ideas like polyamory, living in a polycule or a thruple or some kind of an open relationship, usually in the media, it's a woman who is leading this idea and dragging her husband along or positioning herself as the one who wanted this.
But then when you look at the actual survey data,
men are three times more likely than women to be interested in a polyamorous arrangement or an open relationship or swinging or throuples, which, I mean, that's unsurprising given everything we know about differences between men and women and interest in variety and having multiple partners and so on.
But because I think that people view or a lot of people view sex differences as distasteful, they don't like the fact that men have kind of different sexuality from women, that the idea is to make men and women exactly the same.
So if survey data and everyday common sense indicates that men would be more interested in polyamory or swinging or open relationships,
well, then a lot of people would say, well, we need to make women the same way and promote this idea that women are the same as men.
And that's why you see a lot of these articles and these ideas of women into polyamory or into, there was an article in New York Magazine, why women are quiet quitting their husbands and experimenting and stepping out.
And another article from the New York Times, the case for ending a pretty good marriage
And so I just think there's this discomfort with differences.
And so instead you have to reshape the narrative of, okay, well, it's actually women who want this, not men.
But often I think when you read the stories of a lot of these women,
And if you read a book, like, you know, I've spoken about David Buss before, Dr. Drew.
David Buss's book, Why Women Have Sex.
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