Rob Henderson

You know, I had this tweet put out a while ago with something like, you know, people put a great deal of effort into designing. The phrase is don't judge a book by its cover. And people and yet people put a great deal of effort into designing book covers. This tweet is not about book covers.

You know, I had this tweet put out a while ago with something like, you know, people put a great deal of effort into designing. The phrase is don't judge a book by its cover. And people and yet people put a great deal of effort into designing book covers. This tweet is not about book covers.

In other words, we spend so much time adorning ourselves, the way we dress, our haircuts, the piercings, the tattoos, everything else. And they are sending signals about who they are.

In other words, we spend so much time adorning ourselves, the way we dress, our haircuts, the piercings, the tattoos, everything else. And they are sending signals about who they are.

In other words, we spend so much time adorning ourselves, the way we dress, our haircuts, the piercings, the tattoos, everything else. And they are sending signals about who they are.

You know, there's there's a really great paper from a few years ago with something like personality is revealed on the weekends and the paper covered, you know, basically can cover frequency of going to the movies, going out, how many social nights you have, you know, what your bedroom looks like correlates with your personality. So many things about you reveal this.

You know, there's there's a really great paper from a few years ago with something like personality is revealed on the weekends and the paper covered, you know, basically can cover frequency of going to the movies, going out, how many social nights you have, you know, what your bedroom looks like correlates with your personality. So many things about you reveal this.

You know, there's there's a really great paper from a few years ago with something like personality is revealed on the weekends and the paper covered, you know, basically can cover frequency of going to the movies, going out, how many social nights you have, you know, what your bedroom looks like correlates with your personality. So many things about you reveal this.

And so, yeah, all of that, you mentioned aggression, flightiness and everything else. Yeah. but yeah, but so you want someone with, with relatively low neuroticism and then, yeah, with, with education, with, with intelligence, those things as well. That, um, what's interesting about the intelligence one is that when you ask people, um,

And so, yeah, all of that, you mentioned aggression, flightiness and everything else. Yeah. but yeah, but so you want someone with, with relatively low neuroticism and then, yeah, with, with education, with, with intelligence, those things as well. That, um, what's interesting about the intelligence one is that when you ask people, um,

And so, yeah, all of that, you mentioned aggression, flightiness and everything else. Yeah. but yeah, but so you want someone with, with relatively low neuroticism and then, yeah, with, with education, with, with intelligence, those things as well. That, um, what's interesting about the intelligence one is that when you ask people, um,

And these are sort of hypothetical scenarios, sort of roughly what's the ideal level of intelligence for your partner? People tend to choose around 120 IQ, which is roughly the 90th percentile of intelligence.

And these are sort of hypothetical scenarios, sort of roughly what's the ideal level of intelligence for your partner? People tend to choose around 120 IQ, which is roughly the 90th percentile of intelligence.

And these are sort of hypothetical scenarios, sort of roughly what's the ideal level of intelligence for your partner? People tend to choose around 120 IQ, which is roughly the 90th percentile of intelligence.

And so people want someone who's like obviously smart, visibly intelligent, but they don't want some super genius, maybe because of stereotypes about genius as being, you know, kind of kind of quirky or personality wise being a little off.

And so people want someone who's like obviously smart, visibly intelligent, but they don't want some super genius, maybe because of stereotypes about genius as being, you know, kind of kind of quirky or personality wise being a little off.

And so people want someone who's like obviously smart, visibly intelligent, but they don't want some super genius, maybe because of stereotypes about genius as being, you know, kind of kind of quirky or personality wise being a little off.

But when you look at the correlation coefficients, sort of how similar spouses are to one another within marriages, there is a similarity in that their IQs tend to correlate with one another. But there's still about a 10 point IQ difference between spouses on average. Um, which is smaller than it is for say, um, two siblings.

But when you look at the correlation coefficients, sort of how similar spouses are to one another within marriages, there is a similarity in that their IQs tend to correlate with one another. But there's still about a 10 point IQ difference between spouses on average. Um, which is smaller than it is for say, um, two siblings.

But when you look at the correlation coefficients, sort of how similar spouses are to one another within marriages, there is a similarity in that their IQs tend to correlate with one another. But there's still about a 10 point IQ difference between spouses on average. Um, which is smaller than it is for say, um, two siblings.