Rob Henderson

And then, yeah, inquisitive of if you are uncertain, if there's an ambiguity in the relationship, you don't know what the other person is thinking or feeling. that you ask the person about it, and then the other person, you know, ideally, they're not going to be upset with you.

And then, yeah, inquisitive of if you are uncertain, if there's an ambiguity in the relationship, you don't know what the other person is thinking or feeling. that you ask the person about it, and then the other person, you know, ideally, they're not going to be upset with you.

And then, yeah, inquisitive of if you are uncertain, if there's an ambiguity in the relationship, you don't know what the other person is thinking or feeling. that you ask the person about it, and then the other person, you know, ideally, they're not going to be upset with you.

You know, that was one of the other red flags is, you know, basically forcing you to play the guessing game of, well, if you really cared about me, you should know how I'm feeling. And if you really were paying attention, you would already know why I'm upset. But, you know... a more healthy relationship style would be, you know, to just say like, this is what I'm feeling.

You know, that was one of the other red flags is, you know, basically forcing you to play the guessing game of, well, if you really cared about me, you should know how I'm feeling. And if you really were paying attention, you would already know why I'm upset. But, you know... a more healthy relationship style would be, you know, to just say like, this is what I'm feeling.

You know, that was one of the other red flags is, you know, basically forcing you to play the guessing game of, well, if you really cared about me, you should know how I'm feeling. And if you really were paying attention, you would already know why I'm upset. But, you know... a more healthy relationship style would be, you know, to just say like, this is what I'm feeling.

This is what's upsetting me and, and, um, go from there. And yeah, it's just, um, you know, all of these things, like it's, it's interesting. There's like a, such a, a wealth of information about assortative mating, mating psychology, what to look for, what are the predictors of a happy and healthy relationship? And, and, And yet there's such little guidance on this point.

This is what's upsetting me and, and, um, go from there. And yeah, it's just, um, you know, all of these things, like it's, it's interesting. There's like a, such a, a wealth of information about assortative mating, mating psychology, what to look for, what are the predictors of a happy and healthy relationship? And, and, And yet there's such little guidance on this point.

This is what's upsetting me and, and, um, go from there. And yeah, it's just, um, you know, all of these things, like it's, it's interesting. There's like a, such a, a wealth of information about assortative mating, mating psychology, what to look for, what are the predictors of a happy and healthy relationship? And, and, And yet there's such little guidance on this point.

And then whenever anyone tries to point this out, especially if you try to promote anything resembling sort of conventional committed relationships, people start to get wary. You know, the slings and arrows come out. There was that story more than 10 years ago now. The Princeton mom letter. You familiar with this? No, there was this. So she was a Princeton alumna whose daughter attended Princeton.

And then whenever anyone tries to point this out, especially if you try to promote anything resembling sort of conventional committed relationships, people start to get wary. You know, the slings and arrows come out. There was that story more than 10 years ago now. The Princeton mom letter. You familiar with this? No, there was this. So she was a Princeton alumna whose daughter attended Princeton.

And then whenever anyone tries to point this out, especially if you try to promote anything resembling sort of conventional committed relationships, people start to get wary. You know, the slings and arrows come out. There was that story more than 10 years ago now. The Princeton mom letter. You familiar with this? No, there was this. So she was a Princeton alumna whose daughter attended Princeton.

I think this was 2013, 2014. But this woman who I think was in her 40s, Susan Patton, I want to say she wrote this letter.

I think this was 2013, 2014. But this woman who I think was in her 40s, Susan Patton, I want to say she wrote this letter.

I think this was 2013, 2014. But this woman who I think was in her 40s, Susan Patton, I want to say she wrote this letter.

uh op-ed in the princeton student newspaper basically imploring the young women at this college like hey you're surrounded by very smart ambitious bright young boys you should start thinking about marriage like you should start searching for a husband now and then in response she got all of these criticisms from like big name mainstream media outlets calling her anti-feminist and calling her a traitor to the movement and all these kinds of things and what she said was perfectly reasonable that you know she had a couple of interesting lines in there one was um

uh op-ed in the princeton student newspaper basically imploring the young women at this college like hey you're surrounded by very smart ambitious bright young boys you should start thinking about marriage like you should start searching for a husband now and then in response she got all of these criticisms from like big name mainstream media outlets calling her anti-feminist and calling her a traitor to the movement and all these kinds of things and what she said was perfectly reasonable that you know she had a couple of interesting lines in there one was um

uh op-ed in the princeton student newspaper basically imploring the young women at this college like hey you're surrounded by very smart ambitious bright young boys you should start thinking about marriage like you should start searching for a husband now and then in response she got all of these criticisms from like big name mainstream media outlets calling her anti-feminist and calling her a traitor to the movement and all these kinds of things and what she said was perfectly reasonable that you know she had a couple of interesting lines in there one was um

You're never going to be surrounded by so many men who are worthy of you. And then the other line was something like, if you are with a man who's less intelligent than you, you're never really going to be fully satisfied. And she was kind of pointing out- Generally, that's true. Women do tend to want men who are bright and ambitious and intelligent and all those kinds of things.

You're never going to be surrounded by so many men who are worthy of you. And then the other line was something like, if you are with a man who's less intelligent than you, you're never really going to be fully satisfied. And she was kind of pointing out- Generally, that's true. Women do tend to want men who are bright and ambitious and intelligent and all those kinds of things.