Rob Henderson
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You're never going to be surrounded by so many men who are worthy of you. And then the other line was something like, if you are with a man who's less intelligent than you, you're never really going to be fully satisfied. And she was kind of pointing out- Generally, that's true. Women do tend to want men who are bright and ambitious and intelligent and all those kinds of things.
And your mating prospects change dramatically after college. I mean, I've had so many conversations now, and I'm sure you have too, with young people in their early mid-20s, and they're like, I didn't know how good I had it when I was at college, when I was at university.
And your mating prospects change dramatically after college. I mean, I've had so many conversations now, and I'm sure you have too, with young people in their early mid-20s, and they're like, I didn't know how good I had it when I was at college, when I was at university.
And your mating prospects change dramatically after college. I mean, I've had so many conversations now, and I'm sure you have too, with young people in their early mid-20s, and they're like, I didn't know how good I had it when I was at college, when I was at university.
And it's like, you know, especially if you're a man and 60% of the campus is women and they're all, you know, young and bright and ambitious and interesting and whatever. And then you enter the workforce and it's like all your coworkers are older than you and they're married and they have their own separate adult lives.
And it's like, you know, especially if you're a man and 60% of the campus is women and they're all, you know, young and bright and ambitious and interesting and whatever. And then you enter the workforce and it's like all your coworkers are older than you and they're married and they have their own separate adult lives.
And it's like, you know, especially if you're a man and 60% of the campus is women and they're all, you know, young and bright and ambitious and interesting and whatever. And then you enter the workforce and it's like all your coworkers are older than you and they're married and they have their own separate adult lives.
And it's just, you know, your mating prospects transform and become generally less promising. And no one tells young people about this.
And it's just, you know, your mating prospects transform and become generally less promising. And no one tells young people about this.
And it's just, you know, your mating prospects transform and become generally less promising. And no one tells young people about this.
Yeah, I've seen this this kind of framework. I think it was called, you know, two approaches to a marriage. One is the startup marriage and the other is the capstone marriage.
Yeah, I've seen this this kind of framework. I think it was called, you know, two approaches to a marriage. One is the startup marriage and the other is the capstone marriage.
Yeah, I've seen this this kind of framework. I think it was called, you know, two approaches to a marriage. One is the startup marriage and the other is the capstone marriage.
And so the startup marriage is you're sort of entering together to build this thing, this life together that, you know, if you're in your early mid 20s or something, you're young, you're just starting out, but you find someone that you care about and that you love and you get married and you're sort of. building the life together.
And so the startup marriage is you're sort of entering together to build this thing, this life together that, you know, if you're in your early mid 20s or something, you're young, you're just starting out, but you find someone that you care about and that you love and you get married and you're sort of. building the life together.
And so the startup marriage is you're sort of entering together to build this thing, this life together that, you know, if you're in your early mid 20s or something, you're young, you're just starting out, but you find someone that you care about and that you love and you get married and you're sort of. building the life together.
And then the capstone marriage is, well, I've succeeded in my education and my career and my income and everything else. And now the final milestone is, you know, now I'm going to get married and, and bring this person in. Um, and I think, I think both of those can work in different ways, but that's, that's an, I like the analogy from, from Louise there that, um,
And then the capstone marriage is, well, I've succeeded in my education and my career and my income and everything else. And now the final milestone is, you know, now I'm going to get married and, and bring this person in. Um, and I think, I think both of those can work in different ways, but that's, that's an, I like the analogy from, from Louise there that, um,
And then the capstone marriage is, well, I've succeeded in my education and my career and my income and everything else. And now the final milestone is, you know, now I'm going to get married and, and bring this person in. Um, and I think, I think both of those can work in different ways, but that's, that's an, I like the analogy from, from Louise there that, um,
yeah i you get sort of older you get set in your ways you find it harder to you know introduce someone into your life when you're young you're just more flexible and you're probably more willing to relocate you're probably more willing to maybe change up careers there's so many other things you can do when you're young that becomes harder when you're old um or older anyway but on the other hand i could imagine the argument going going the the opposite way where